I overheard a guy talking to some trashy girl and I'm 95% sure he told her I am gay, just because I'm in shape tan and look good. He didnt say my name or anything specifically as I dont even know the guy, and I cant say with 100% certainty he was talking about me. But come on, when you know you know.
I'm really tempted to throw down right now, but at the same time I'm getting too old for this childish nonsense and it will have serious repercussions.
A grown ass fat ass black man calling me gay for looking good. Jesus christ some people are so trashy and moronic. His mother should be shot in the head for raising him
When a guy tells a female that he thinks another dude is gay it doesn't accomplish what that guy thinks it does. In fact, it does the exact opposite.
1. It doesn't lower the accusee's status or desirability in her mind or gross her out at all. Girls don't just listen to guys and believe this kind of stuff-- they have a good sensor and assume the guy saying it is jealous (or else why would he care to even be involved?)
2. It creates more interest/intrigue in the accused and raises their desireability. It also makes you more approachable
Lemme explain:
Women know about these games instinctively since they have been involved in these games a lot earlier and deeper in life than guys have. Just like every guy knows/feels that if a chick is verbally thrashing some other good looking girl that it means the accuser is jealous of what that girl has. Just like that but stronger and more automatic.
Guys are pretty stupid with their choice of this kind of putdown, it works completely contrary to how they want it to and lowers their own stock to women. It's not convincing at all but since women wont call them out as they do it, they assume "wow it worked!"
This didn't even work 30 years ago, and today it's much worse as accusing some competing male of being gay to a woman or anyone is a social taboo that women do not want to be around someone who makes social risks like that, the only reason for a guy to do so is if they feel threatened...
Like the other guy said, you've already won. This guy put himself in the social recycle pile. Don't blow your victory by letting it get to you.
Pretty boys have to deal with this all the time, it is accepted without strain. Actual, literal Rockstars get this constantly and they don't care because it ups their value. They have it figured out. They absolutely win in life with females unless they let it get to them