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I do the Limp wrist thing and have most of the mannerisms of cam from modern family .... that ahit must come from somewhere but I don't think being gay is the cause.
Like if me and nodak were standing next to each other and you had to place bets on which of us were gay I would bet money most people would guess wrong
Far as I can tell it's not that feminine men are gay so much as when they were growing up they had no men around to model themselves off of.
That lispy talk on the other hand seems to be a behavior a lot of dudes will take up I think as a way to signal to the world like hey honey I'm right here !
Aren't you like a biker-looking dude? Haven't seen NoDak, but I think most people would guess right on that one (I know there's like a gay biker-looking-dude thing, but still).
I took it to be signaling and maybe defiance. Like, if people feel boxed in by societal expectations, they can just say fuck it, I'm not hiding and in fact, I'm turning it up to 11.

