Would you have a problem with your wife clubbing?

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My wife is not that type to go to a club, but in TS scenario, no I wouldn't care if she went
 
Bay Area said:
To those married, would you be ok with your wife clubbing or hitting bars at night? Let's say if she is hanging out with her girlfriends for a night of dancing in the clubs, and later the bars, and let's she does this frequently. Lets say that she usually doesn't get home until 3-4 AM. Let's also assume you have kids.

To those not married, assume that you are.
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This kind of thing doesn't happen overnight, unless something devious is going on.

Chances are she was a club rat when y'all met, but being blinded by lust, you let it go and figured it would eventually dissipate.

Red flags are easy to detect when you start thinking with the right head.
 
I remember this married chick who used to hang out with us at the bars. They had a kid too, and it seemed like she would switch off days watching the kid so her husband could go out. He hung with a different crowd though. She never banged other guys, but she would gladly give out blowjobs as if that wasn't cheating.
 
Oblivian said:
I remember this married chick who used to hang out with us at the bars. They had a kid too, and it seemed like she would switch off days watching the kid so her husband could go out. He hung with a different crowd though. She never banged other guys, but she would gladly give out blowjobs as if that wasn't cheating.
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Bless her heart
 
I would not be cool with my wife clubbing. I've been to clubs. I know what that's about.
 
There was an awesome episode of MTV True Life where the wife had gotten her stomach stapled and started going out clubbing looking for friends.

The husband was annoyed but the wife kept saying she needed to do it to help her self esteem since she was always fat.
 
Of course I'd be okay with it. But on 1 condition: she has to bring along her big athletic bull Tyrese with her. And I'd ask Tyrese to make sure she gets home safely, of course. 4am seems reasonable.

BTW what is it with Mayberry's obsession with getting cucked?? Because I know that's where you were going with this TS.
 
A woman who is married with kids, and feels the need to go out to clubs with friends is not emotionally mature. She would definitely need personal counseling and marriage counseling. More than likely, she is already mentally separated from the marriage and is waiting for the husband to make the decision to file for divorce, since she isnt capable of doing it herself. She is wanting out, and when the husband does file, she has someone to blame for it because she is too immature to take responsibility for sabotaging the marriage. The longer this goes on, the greatest harm will be to the kids.
 
It's odd behavior for a married woman and mother, especially if it is a new one. Depends how old the kids are too, and if she is hung over the next day and not helping with the kids.
 
Big Brown Clown said:
Of course I'd be okay with it. But on 1 condition: she has to bring along her big athletic bull Tyrese with her. And I'd ask Tyrese to make sure she gets home safely, of course. 4am seems reasonable.

BTW what is it with Mayberry's obsession with getting cucked?? Because I know that's where you were going with this TS.
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He's a Bernie supporter
 
This heavily depends on which of my wives I consider. Heh.
 
you go to the club for one reason.....to get laid. so yea, i would have a problem with it. even if she doesnt go there to get laid, all the guys there go to get laid. only way it would be ok is if we went together, but i have no interest in going. why? because if i go to a club its to get laid.
 
ProBoxingInsidr said:
you go to the club for one reason.....to get laid. so yea, i would have a problem with it. even if she doesnt go there to get laid, all the guys there go to get laid. only way it would be ok is if we went together, but i have no interest in going. why? because if i go to a club its to get laid.
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Not true at all my dad is like 62 and he goes clubbing a lot. Then again it's very common for people in the latin community to go out clubbing because we love to dance (well most of us I hate it).
 
It's hard to imagine marrying someone who clubs regularly, even after kids.

I guess my answer depends on if I can go do something similar without harassment. Does she have a problem with me visiting strip clubs while she's at the club, assuming I pay for the baby sitter?
 
Going out to drink with her friends? No.
Dancing? We all know that means letting random dude bros grind their dicks against them. I would have a problem with that.
 
Most people I know that are 30+ or 40+ don't go "clubbing." In fact, I don't know a single person that age that goes clubbing. Bars, yes, other activities, yes, clubbing, not so much.
 
TS - yes, your wife is cheating. Get proof, get a lawyer, live unsatisfactorily ever after.
 
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