Why Do Men love Blondes?

I wouldn't say i prefer any hair colour over the other.

Blondes, Brunettes, black hair types, and even gingers can have beautiful hair.

I would be judgmental about this, but then i realized how much i love green eyes.
 
raptorjesus29 said:
Maybe this was true at some point in the US, but if this thread is any indication it is no longer true at all. Also I prefer dark hair to blonde.
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that i can see. some reasons would probably be:

in hollywood, some of the most attractive women were blonde, so naturally other women tried to emulate them.

Reyesnuthugr said:
Girls dye their hair blonde because blonde hair is an immediate attention getter. It's like a giant highlighter effect that grabs attention from the corner of your eye easier.

Also, it tends to brighten and distract from undesirable facial traits, so a skinny chick that would normally be just a 6 will often be regarded like a 9 or 10 ("or ur gay!") by impulsive inexperienced douchebags (of which there are no shortage).
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another good, reasonable point. since it is one of the least common hair colors, it definitely gets peoples' attention.

odog said:
Actually he is not just pulling this out of his ass. I don't claim to be an expert in this field myself, but I did read about a study a while ago about whether men actually prefer blondes and they hypothesized about the reasons why.

We are all a product of our genes, our hormones and our life experiences. And sometimes our genes influence us more than we realize. It is theorized that (at least amongst white people, I suppose) we are at least somewhat predisposed to be attracted to blondes.

Many people are born with blonde hair and it darkens as they age. Thus subconsciously we somewhat associate blonde hair with youth. Since deep down our sole goal on this planet is to reproduce, it is natural to be more attracted to the young as they are more likely to be able to produce viable offspring.

If I remember correctly, the opposite was true with female attractions towards men. Women are somewhat predisposed to be attracted to darker haired men as it is a sign that they have lived longer and been able to survive.

Now of course these baser instincts don't completely rule us. I for one am more attracted to redheads and black hair.

And while this may still be a theory, it is certainly a somewhat accepted one. A lot of research has been done on this. So no one is just pulling it out of their ass, just because you don't happen to agree with it.
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what you're talking about (by your own admission) is speculation and conjecture; i like the fact that you differentiated which types of men might be more attracted to women with blonde hair, which is a distinction the person i quoted did not make, but it still only speaks for a very small portion of the global population.

i also don't get this idea about "young" woman being better for having children. when girls have children at very young ages, they're more at risk for miscarriages or severe reproductive problems so they can't have children anymore in the future. they need to fully mature into their bodies in order to successfully have children in a healthy way.
 
I like Italian and Asian women the most, neither are blonde, I guess everyone has their preferences.
 
Bolshevik said:
what you're talking about (by your own admission) is speculation and conjecture; i like the fact that you differentiated which types of men might be more attracted to women with blonde hair, which is a distinction the person i quoted did not make, but it still only speaks for a very small portion of the global population.

i also don't get this idea about "young" woman being better for having children. when girls have children at very young ages, they're more at risk for miscarriages or severe reproductive problems so they can't have children anymore in the future. they need to fully mature into their bodies in order to successfully have children in a healthy way.
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Your so quick to call BS on someone, but then tuck-tail with a quickness when presented with sources.

Its okay, you dont have to reply to my response to your little temper tantrum. You can just pretend I didnt respond and that I did pull it out of my ass, which now you are admitting that I didnt.
 
odog said:
Well yes, it is just a theory. We certainly can't understand the full complexity of human attraction. We never, ever will have certainties about this. They can prove however if men are more attracted to blondes or not. And they can test if women are more attracted to brunettes. There is no way that science could ever say with absolute full certainty why one person is attracted to another. That just can't be proven. There are however theories based on the available evidence. So if someone says that men prefer blondes because it is a symbol of youth and therefore fertility, they are not just pulling it completely out of their ass. They are ascribing to an established theory, which is based on the evidence we have. It may not be possible to prove it with perfect certainty, but in this realm, what is?
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the problem with this anecdotal evidence/survey method is that it doesn't account for the impact of culture on a person's tastes. if you live in a country where blonde people are constantly flaunted in the media as the most attractive women in the world, it's obviously going to have a psychological affect on you. how can you possibly try to relate that to "well it's because they think they are younger and more fertile", particularly when a lot of people don't even care about that since a healthy portion of individuals these days have no desire to have children.
 
NorCalNinja said:
Your so quick to call BS on someone, but then tuck-tail with a quickness when presented with sources.

Its okay, you dont have to reply to my response to your little temper tantrum. You can just pretend I didnt respond.
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*You're
 
NorCalNinja said:
Your so quick to call BS on someone, but then tuck-tail with a quickness when presented with sources.

Its okay, you dont have to reply to my response to your little temper tantrum. You can just pretend I didnt respond.
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what the hell are you talking about? some people have other things to do besides staying up all night arguing with people who have their heads up their asses. your sources don't even have any credibility which would withstand scientific rigor. they're just theories which can't be proven.
 
A Psych Major said:
I think hair length and texture matter more than color tbh. Also, it depends on the girl in question. Black girls who dye their hair blonde look absolutely terrible.
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excellent point. it all depends on how the hair looks on the woman. some have the right skin tone and eye color to look good with lighter colored hair. others look better with darker, and some with a color in-between. same with longer, shorter, or medium lengths.
 
Bolshevik said:
what the hell are you talking about? some people have other things to do besides staying up all night arguing with people who have their heads up their asses. your sources don't even have any credibility which would withstand scientific rigor. they're just theories which can't be proven.
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hahahahaha, you can just admit it, you have no idea what you are talking about.

First you said I was pulling it out of my ass, now you are saying researchers agree with me but they are wrong.

Which one is it bitch?

Hey, if you dont want to discuss it anymore, thats fine, but dont talk shit on someone else about a topic you clearly are super ignorant about.
 
I like jet black hair on a girl and I'm blonde. I don't think most women go for blonde men... most go for the tall, dark and handsome stereotype. Two out of three is not bad though....
 
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NorCalNinja said:
hahahahaha, you can just admit it, you have no idea what you are talking about.

First you said I was pulling it out of my ass, now you are saying researchers agree with me but they are wrong.

Which one is it bitch?

Hey, if you dont want to discuss it anymore, thats fine, but dont talk shit on someone else about a topic you clearly are super ignorant about.
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hang on a second, i just got flashbacks to when i was in middle school...:icon_lol:

name-calling, over the internet? yeah, you're really showing your intellectual superiority there buddy.

for the record, you are pulling your "facts" out of your ass because you're not even stating what these so-called researches said in the first place. you're taking their "evidence" at face value, when it's anything but, then twisting it around to fit your agenda. a weak argument from a man with a mental frailty.
 
Noblet10 said:
Yes, I think it's our society telling us that blondes are the most attractive. Now, how they decided that blondes were better looking, I don't know.
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Where do you get this?
 
Bolshevik said:
hang on a second, i just got flashbacks to when i was in middle school...:icon_lol:

name-calling, over the internet? yeah, you're really showing your intellectual superiority there buddy.

for the record, you are pulling your "facts" out of your ass because you're not even stating what these so-called researches said in the first place. you're taking their "evidence" at face value, when it's anything but, then twisting it around to fit your agenda. a weak argument from a man with a mental frailty.
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My agenda?!! LOL

1. We established that hair does get darker with age. First thing you have been wrong about.

2. Then you claimed older women produce healthier offspring than young ones. Thats just so LOLzy. http://themomblog.blog.ocregister.c...k-of-autistic-child-doubles-study-says/46443/ . Women at 40 have double the chance of an autistic child, stupid.

Thats your fail #2

3. You said men arent attracted to youth in women. This might be the dumbest thing Ive ever heard anyone argue.

fail after fail. Just dont correct me anymore like you did earlier and we dont have to talk anymore bud. Now you get mad at my verbage when you originally said my stance was "filth" and I was "pulling it out of my ass",.. now it turns out I was right and you were completely wrong about everything.

Have a nice day.
 
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