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Why do girls always do this?

She wants you to get in the car and start driving, then she can throw out suggestions or go "ooh ooh" and point to some restaurant just as you drive past the turn for it
 
I knew someone would know what I'm talking about
 
If she won't decide then the choice is obvious, gas station burritos.
 
These are 2 Live Crew lyrics? Alligator fuckhouse?
 
Yeah, they're just playing those stupid games they like to play, they want to see how far they can push you, and how much you will let them walk over you, let them walk all over you, they lose interest, and move onto someone else. Hence the old adage of "Girls only go for dickheads", it's usually not the case (although, some do go for the dickheads, but they're usually the really crazy ones).

Case in point, I asked a girl to go to the cinema, watched what she wanted, payed for shit, and she was sat there, acting all bored, cold and distant, didn't want to talk or anything. Then, same girl talked about going to the cinema a few months later, I said "Well, I'm going to see that new Die Hard movie", she said "I don't want to go see that", to which I said "I wasn't asking if you wanted to go, I'm going to go see it".

Then, she starts asking me "Are you going with anyone", I said "No, I'm just going to see it", then starts asking me if she could go because she was bored, and I said "Doesn't matter whether you go or not", and then she starts all the flirting and acting interested.

So, they just want to see if they can walk over you, or whether you'll actually stand up for yourself, women are indecisive enough without you adding to it.
 
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Just girls being what they are - indecisive. It's also her telling you (without explicitly saying it) that she just wants you to take charge.

If she asks you where you want to go, throw out a couple of ideas, and if she still does the "No/I don't care/Just pick something" then just put your damn foot down and pick a place.

And if she doesn't like it? Too fucking bad. You've made up your mind. If it's any consolation tell her she can pick the next time.

Yup. They like the man to be in charge so be in charge. Tell her you really want "blank" food tonight and she'll listen. As strong and independent as women have become, they are sexually attracted to men who can take care of them and even little things like telling them the plan for the evening are important.
 
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