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Why do girls always do this?

Just take me to dinner. I really don't care where you take me.
 
You are letting her be the boss. First mistake.

Complaining the she isn't dominant enough for you is your second mistake.

Pick where you want to eat, and go. If she speaks up, then take her voice into consideration.
 
When my girlfriend does this I break her down emotionally then build her back up and instead of eating we go home and have lots of makeup sex . Then I make her go get me a big ass motherfucking sammich and shit
 
You are letting her be the boss. First mistake.

Complaining the she isn't dominant enough for you is your second mistake.

Pick where you want to eat, and go. If she speaks up, then take her voice into consideration.

bingo!

this man knows what's up.
 
Me and the GF picking somewhere to eat.

Me: where do you wanna go?
Her: idc you pick, I'm really hungry
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: okay, what about ____
Her: no.
Me: alright, well what sounds good to you??
Her: I don't care, just pick something!


!!!!!!!!!!!!! It gets frustrating

Just girls being what they are - indecisive. It's also her telling you (without explicitly saying it) that she just wants you to take charge.

If she asks you where you want to go, throw out a couple of ideas, and if she still does the "No/I don't care/Just pick something" then just put your damn foot down and pick a place.

And if she doesn't like it? Too fucking bad. You've made up your mind. If it's any consolation tell her she can pick the next time.
 
Me and the GF picking somewhere to eat.

Me: where do you wanna go?
Her: idc you pick, I'm really hungry
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: okay, what about ____
Her: no.
Me: alright, well what sounds good to you??
Her: I don't care, just pick something!

!!!!!!!!!!!!! It gets frustrating

She told you she didn't want to pick and yet you keep ASKING her "how about..."

You're coming off like a wuss and it's pissing her off.
 
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If she says I don't care, then reply, "ok, we're going to ___" and just go. She'll either learn to be honest about what she wants, or you'll learn she actually doesn't care.
 
she has an idea of where to go

she just doesnt wanna tell u & wants u to figure it out like a mindreader :(

its all part of the dominant struggle

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Why do girls always do this? Because they are stupid. j/k

They probably want you to take charge and pick somewhere. If you feel like seafood, then you take her to Long John Silvers. If she doesn't like it, tough titty.

P.S. I am single, so my advice might not be the best on this board.
 
Just go where ever you want. I usually let girls pick and they know where to go but sometimes they dont and I just make a decision and if they bitch I make em pay for the food :D jjk. there are bigger problems man. Cook home, funner and better(if you know how to cook ofcourse).
 
You need to suggest somewhere outside your vicinity.

That way she won't run into anyone she's banging.
 
My wife does this all the time TS. After her first I dont care, I either go to the place I want or order what I want. She got pissed the first few times but has since fallen in line that you obviously have something in mind so express it.
 
shes either just being an annoying dipshit or shes one of those girls who gets their jolies by seeing you put your foot down and saying where youre both going
 
Me and the GF picking somewhere to eat.

Me: where do you wanna go?
Her: idc you pick, I'm really hungry
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: how about ____
Her: no.
Me: okay, what about ____
Her: no.
Me: alright, well what sounds good to you??
Her: I don't care, just pick something!


!!!!!!!!!!!!! It gets frustrating

Dude, she wants you to pick something. Quit fucking asking her and pick something. It's that simple.
 
You are letting her be the boss. First mistake.

Complaining the she isn't dominant enough for you is your second mistake.

Pick where you want to eat, and go. If she speaks up, then take her voice into consideration.

^Exactly.
 
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