Relationship What's the reason you got kids?

[Takes_Two_To_Tango]

Just curious for someone who doesn't have kids. I'd like to know what was the desire to have children?

Personally for me, never really felt the need to have kids. It's all good for me.

 

[Belaya Smert]

Family band

 

[My name is]

I was always very against it until I hit about 33 or so. Then I started to feel the desire . It's hard to explain you just start wanting one. To the point you start busting in randoms

 

[aerius]

Premature ejaculation.

 

[CrazyN8]

Maybe some people are meant to breed and others aren't. That said you'd probably be having kids regardless vefore birth control, what a game changer.

 

[Flower2dPeople]

I had a strong pull out game. Gf-now wife -don't want me to implement a defensive play. No problem. Early 20s with 2 kids. The thing is, I'm now in my 40s and I still want more kids.

 

[mjmj]

Not even sure how to answer that question.

 

[Mike]

I don't got em. Thank Christ.

 

[misterfurious]

I can’t really put into words why I wanted kids; but I can tell you when my son randomly told me the other day “daddy, I love you so much!” it was the most overwhelmingly awesome thing I’ve ever experienced.

 

[Nimrod]

Real answer - nature

Chad answer - my seman is so strong I jerk off and woman gets pregnant

 

[Fedorgasm]

Several reasons:

1. I just felt like my life would be empty and boring eventually if I didn't have them.

2. My dad was pretty shitty for much of my childhood so I felt like I could and should be a better dad than him. Like it was restoring balance in the universe or something.

3. I just had a lot of love to give and not enough people to give it to.

 

[TheTickG]

Just curious for someone who doesn't have kids. I'd like to know what was the desire to have children?

Personally for me, never really felt the need to have kids. It's all good for me.

A few reasons.
1. I enjoy the family and the culture that I come from so I see that as a responsibility to continue it.
2. Wanted to create and add value to the world.
3. It's a way to enjoy things in life as they were new again.
4. It is an experience that my wife and I can grow together.
5. A way to make me a better person.

 

[Travis Alexander]

I have a weak pull out game.


3 boys 1 girl checking in.

 

[AFanNotAFighter]

Just curious for someone who doesn't have kids. I'd like to know what was the desire to have children?

Personally for me, never really felt the need to have kids. It's all good for me.

I always wanted kids but I didn't want to be married so I think that was what led me to become an elementary school teacher. That career really satisfied any paternal instincts I might have had. Plus, I worked with mostly women so I had many "work" wives. Driving home each day after school let out I was glad I wasn't coming home to more kids and women.

 

[DarthChen731]

Someone's gotta take care of me when I'm an old fuck

 

[jeff7b9]

Wife wanted kids.

I wanted to stay with wife.
She's a good one.

Now I have kids.

 

[blackdudebro]

I was always very against it until I hit about 33 or so. Then I started to feel the desire . It's hard to explain you just start wanting one. To the point you start busting in randoms

Damn…

 

[Friendly Farmer]

Several reasons:

1. I just felt like my life would be empty and boring eventually if I didn't have them.

2. My dad was pretty shitty for much of my childhood so I felt like I could and should be a better dad than him. Like it was restoring balance in the universe or something.

3. I just had a lot of love to give and not enough people to give it to.

This is beautiful, man. And it hits home, especially your second point. Just got battered playing one on one basketball with my teenage boy, only to come here and read this thread. He even let me get some easy lay-ups toward the end and when we were finished, gave me a fist bump saying "don't worry...you still got it". There's parenting and there's everything else in life. My only regret is not having at least 4 or 5 little rascals.

 

[Cyrano200]

Nothing completes you like a child. But I didn't know that before I had one.

Awards, accolades, medals, qualifications, degrees, winning, applause, the satisfaction of a job well done....all these things are great, and I am still proud of having achieved / earned them, but the shine wears off each of them fairly quickly leaving you with the need, or at least urge, to do it again.
Friends, lovers, and sadly even spouses aren't necessarily forever. Your kids are always your kids. The contentment of being with them and keeping them safe....the joy and pride of their small milestones....I honestly think reading bedtime stories may be some of the best, happiest, most content moments of my life.

Anyway, kids rule.
Now I want grandkids.

 

[The Good The Bad The HBK]

@Woldog does not pull out







Unless it's with @revoltub mom