The practice of not blaming others for your problems is not the same thing as blaming yourself for or taking responsibility for circumstances beyond your control.
Thanks to your comments I have a better idea now of the subject matter. It was not evident to me from
@Strychnine's reply, which was insulting coming from a mod. He said "you" so I took it to be directed at me personally.
I get really tired of people posting videos with no comment as to their length or content. I don't give a fuck who does it; it gets on my nerves. A cryptic reply to a direct question about it steps all over them in clogs.