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Social Update on the sandwich deli girl

This has become a long thread so I don't expect you to be up to date on everything but you are missing some key details and developments and I don't want to explain it multiple times. I'm good at this point. If she's not meant for me, I can date other women. I'm good bro. My friend is smarter than you btw.

I am not missing any details and there have been no developments. Her buying your sandwich is not a development.

Update me with the only real development that there could be: You asked her out, she said yes, you went out with her and at least got a kiss. You do that, and that's a development. Anything less is you trying to convince yourself that she is romantically interested in you from non-romantic interactions.
 
I am not missing any details and there have been no developments. Her buying your sandwich is not a development.

Update me with the only real development that there could be: You asked her out, she said yes, you went out with her and at least got a kiss. You do that, and that's a development. Anything less is you trying to convince yourself that she is romantically interested in you from non-romantic interactions.
Yes, things are not looking good right now. I felt like she treated me like a customer yesterday.

But I'll be alright.
 
I'm attracted to women who are attracted to me. The whole reason I was infatuated with her after initially shooting my shot is because I felt like she was sending me signals. If I sense that she's not really interested then I can find other women who are.

She's not sending you signals. Your receiver is fucked up.
 
She's not sending you signals. Your receiver is fucked up.
She did something with the prolonged direct eye contact and the smile but she might have just enjoyed the attention. I don't know. All I know is that yesterday I felt like her customer even though she bought me a sandwich. It is what it is. I'll be fine.
 
This probably hasn't been mentioned yet but there might be a small chance the deli girl is actually into females and not males.

One time I was trying to pick up an 18 year old at work and we would flirt all the time. She would regularly grab my ass and I would grab hers. She would never hang out with me outside of work though. Then one day a co-worker tells me he saw a girl drop her off and he saw them kissing each other. Turns out the girl was in a relationship with another girl the whole time and was just enjoying the attention she got from me.
Probably Bi or pansexual
 
She did something with the prolonged direct eye contact and the smile but she might have just enjoyed the attention. I don't know. All I know is that yesterday I felt like her customer even though she bought me a sandwich. It is what it is. I'll be fine.
Don't give up! You need to break her down until she goes out with you
 
She did something with the prolonged direct eye contact and the smile but she might have just enjoyed the attention. I don't know. All I know is that yesterday I felt like her customer even though she bought me a sandwich. It is what it is. I'll be fine.

Do you think "prolonged direct eye contact" is substitute for "I'd love to go out with you to a movie"?
 
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