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Update on the sandwich deli girl

Contempt said:
I couldn't make it past the first page due to the cringe... I see this is still going 20 pages later.

Did I miss anything interesting?
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Yes, we've not even asked if TS has tried coke and hookers instead, with the amount of sandwiches he's purchased I think he could've had a great time with coke and hookers....
 
mozfonky said:
you guys are acting like you were never infatuated.

last time i was infatuated like that, I actually had a plan to go to where the woman lives, dress up as the easter bunny, knock on her bedroom window and when she looks, she'll see me beating my meat. I mean, honestly, no one would ever believe her and I was really obsessed with that girl. Shoulda done it, at least I'll admit it, dude, you're not alone. Go for it while your out of the resthome.
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Eh, it is normal but the trick is not to make it weird and get arrested
 
Osculater said:
Eh, it is normal but the trick is not to make it weird and get arrested
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yup, especially these days. a hundred years ago, it was normal to be rebuffed and told no and play hard to get, that way a woman knew you weren't playing around. Not the case today. I've been there one time, was determined not to repeat it.

A dirty little secret is, women love to reject men, this fool'll learn.
 
Contempt said:
Why would anyone waste their time with some random deli skank if they have coke and hookers?
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Whilst this true, he might have misunderstood how many sandwiches he needs to buy to get absolutely nowhere........ Now he's knee deep in rotting sandwiches and no closer to the snatch....... And doesn't have coke and hooker money anymore.......
 
mozfonky said:
yup, especially these days. a hundred years ago, it was normal to be rebuffed and told no and play hard to get, that way a woman knew you weren't playing around. Not the case today. I've been there one time, was determined not to repeat it.

A dirty little secret is, women love to reject men, this fool'll learn.
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This is true <goldie>
 
William Huggins said:
Whilst this true, he might have misunderstood how many sandwiches he needs to buy to get absolutely nowhere........ Now he's knee deep in rotting sandwiches and no closer to the snatch....... And doesn't have coke and hooker money anymore.......
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Infinite sandwich money on zero pussy or far less money on guaranteed pussy.

The math doesn't lie.
 
Contempt said:
Infinite sandwich money on zero pussy or far less money on guaranteed pussy.

The math doesn't lie.
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You guys are not going to believe this but she bought my sandwich today.

Let me explain... I almost always get the same thing every time I go in. Everyone knows my sandwich order. So I walk by the counter and, honestly, she doesn't look as friendly today but I'm sort of used to this yo yo behavior at this point. Some days she looks so friendly and flirtatious but other days, like today, a little moody and stressed.

So she says "hey slothbroth, here's your ticket" and I tell her that I'm not getting a sandwich today. So I do some shopping and I get some bone broth and they heat it up for me and she hands me a sandwich saying that she's buying it for me today.

I say "nooooo... I can't let you buy my sandwich" and she insists and her coworker tells me that she is very stubborn and it's useless to argue with her. So I tell them that I'm going to start tipping and they laugh and say ok. So I get change at the register which is in a different part of the store and I bring $15 back and say "I'm just going to put this under this here" on the counter under the banana basket.

She says "no, you don't have to pay" and I say "this is the tip I'm leaving"

So I sit down in the other part of the store and drink my bone broth and I'm minding my own business and she walks by and says "see you slothbroth"

I know you are all going to not believe me but this really happened today.

I actually didn't feel good vibes from her today though. I didn't like her buying my sandwich like that. It reminded me of a few years ago when I was dating a lawyer and the last time I ever saw her we had dinner and she sneakily paid the bill while I was in the restroom and I felt like she got one over on me and that was the end of our dating after we had been talking for a few months and I had met her family who I could tell didn't really like me although they were polite.

But today was a good day still. I felt like I held frame with the deli girl and even if she doesn't date me, I will be alright and I won because I tipped her more than my sandwich cost.
 
Alright, what autistic mod couldn't understand the clear joke my post was :rolleyes:
 
pugilistico said:
I'd be pretty annoyed if he's just trolling for shits and giggles, but in case this is for real, I wanted to try to give good advice to a desperate man. I've been there (although when I was much younger). My ultimate advice is to not put women on a pedestal and focus on living your own life but I am worried that it's not being taken seriously. I would rather have TS forget about this girl or at the very least stop romanticizing her.


She's 20 and you don't know her. You have no idea if she has good morals or not man. This is why I suggest meditation. Focus on actual observable reality. Just because she's nice and smiles at you and goes to church doesn't mean she an outstanding person who shares your values. It literally just means she's nice, smiles at people, and goes to church. Plenty of people I know fit that description and not all of them are good people.

Look into stoicism if eastern philosophy seems too out there for you. It's quite similar.

If a guy passes by you and mean mugs and walks away, what does it mean? A lot of people would think he's asshole, trying to fight, whatever and have an emotional reaction. But what actually happened? A guy passes by you, mean mugged, and walked away. Did he have it out for you? Was he actually looking at something else? Maybe his face is just like that and he's really a nice guy? None of that matters. You don't really know anything other than observable facts. Stop making up fantasies or assumptions with so little information.
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Today she acted... Not cold, but not interested either. She talked to me more like a customer today even though she bought my sandwich. I actually didn't like her buying my sandwich. It reminded me of a few years ago when a lawyer I dated for a few months paid for dinner our last time together and we didn't talk anymore after that.

I know from Facebook that she's the same faith as me and has a good relationship with her parents. She also has significant academic achievements. She is not selling images of her body on OF, which is what someone else crudely suggested. She works for her money and is not that kind of girl. At least not right now, though it is possible for anyone to turn towards a dark path. I would bet a lot that she is not on that kind of path right now.

I like the idea of stoicism. I'm a bit stress out for the last week being off weed which is like medicine to me, but I'm also sharper and more 'in the moment' right now. Like I said before, she makes me want to be a better man.

So even if things don't work out with her, I feel like I can handle it. I'm used to the yo yo behavior from her at this point where she oscillates from hot to cold and back. I just mirror her behavior when she acts busy. She does genuinely get busy there of course, but it's a subtle thing, you know? You know how women can be.

I appreciate the advice about not making up fantasies but I believe there is something there. She paid for my sandwich today! That meant something.

But if she is just being nice but not really flirtatious, I will be fine. Yeah, I have crushed on her hard but she's not the only fish in the sea. If she doesn't want me then I will move on and continue on my path of self improvement.
 
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