Amazing when someone understands.
We have 2 adult softball leagues, Men's and Co-ed. I fully enjoy the co-ed, everyone laughs and it's light hearted competition. The men have to bat from their weak side and 4 women have to be on field. It's fun, everyone laughs and gets along just fine.
Then the men's league, much less laughing, much more competition and the pace of the game is 5xs faster. The women would get hurt, they aren't allowed to play in that league because we don't want to have to tone it down to accommodate them.
There is Invictia, no one watches it because it's slower and not as exciting.