Both my grandfathers relied on their wives to cook meals for them their entire lives. That's great but what happens when she goes first? Happened to both them. Now they're men in their 80's that have to rely on fast food, one of us ordering them uber eats or cooking them a meal cause they don't even know how to make toast and they're too old to learn. Don't get me wrong, I love them both and they're good men but there's nothing masculine about not being able to provide for yourself in the most basic means. Learn to cook and feed yourself.