Now, to be clear
@hillelslovak87, what separates crazies like me from the dangerous crazy person is that I have a grip on reality; so if there is no day of reckoning in sight, I don't belabor it, I just get on with life. But I never forget. And that goes for both positive and negative experiences. Surprisingly, that makes me "forgetful" when it comes to small stuff. I might get quite uptight for a moment, but once it passes, it's like it never happened. I believe it's a sign of self awareness. Small stuff doesn't stick because I can see enough of myself in the other person to know it's just being human; sometimes people do stuff that annoys you*. But the heinous stuff that tells you people just did it to fuck you, or the people who act selflessly to help, are simultaneously remembered forever, and thought of as little as possible to keep from being paralyzed by the lack of closure.
*Disclaimer: I know there are other possible explanations and some of them aren't nearly as flattering. Let me think about it.
This is the time for #getoverit, if that tool from before is still lurking ITT.
