main thing that came to mind
"you'll understand when you grow up"
"you think you know everything now, but you don't know shit"
"you'll look back on this one day and realize i was right"
shit like that my dad used to say to me between the ages of about 16 and 20. I thought he was old and dumb. Now I realized how young and stupid I was at the time.
No Idea how to approach the instances that lead to my dad saying those things, with my kids once they are older. Certainly cant learn from how my Dad handled me, as I completely brushed him off.
So many times my life would have been easier had I accepted that I didnt know what i was doing, and listened to someone more experienced.