I have a very hard time subbing guys with a triangle if I don't have the arm across. I can do it if I overhook the arm tightly that usually would go across, and then lock it under my arm and gable-grip/s-grip ther bacvk of their head into my inner thigh, right to the side of my groin. This is how Eddie Bravo does it (I think). Should I use this, or should I always go for arm across???? Then for the Tepee. I cannot get the tap man. Maybe if their right arm is on the floor and I can hug it under my left arm while I squeeze my knees, pull in, and s-grip behind the knees. But how can I make this better? Any Tepee experts here? Maybe Mikey Triangles can help? At least with the Triangle question.