Well, eh... yeah.I'd be willing to bet my account most in here will tap early to the higher belt who slaps on their favorite sub but fight tooth and nail if a white belt catches them in something legit.
Simple answer here..Tap early. I changed my view to this after my first 6 months of being a "tough guy" and trying to defend to the bitter end. The mistake has already been made so just tap and learn how to avoid it.
Your partners won't care that you aren't letting them finish
I'd be willing to bet my account most in here will tap early to the higher belt who slaps on their favorite sub but fight tooth and nail if a white belt catches them in something legit.
Simple answer here..Tap early. I changed my view to this after my first 6 months of being a "tough guy" and trying to defend to the bitter end. The mistake has already been made so just tap and learn how to avoid it.
Your partners won't care that you aren't letting them finish
I care. Look, if you're a white or blue belt I don't really care if you tap early, but if you're purple or above and you tap early you're doing me a disservice by not letting me learn how to finish subs. Try and sub a black belt who really doesn't want to tap and tell me that finishing a locked in RNC or a fully extended arm bar requires no technique: you can't. I'm a brown belt, I'm not going to go apeshit and destroy your arm, don't be afraid. Especially if we train together a lot and you know me (more caution is needed with people you don't know). Nobody would say this about letting your guard get passed or getting mounted or what have you, the only reason you say it about subs is because you're irrationally afraid of getting hurt. We have a system in BJJ to prevent injury whereby when you reach the point of injury you give up and I let you go, and thus I learn how to apply subs and you learn how far you can go and how to escape. It works pretty well for all parties, if you start giving up early you're robbing yourself and me of the chance to learn an important skill set. Whether you train for sport, self defense, or MMA, knowing your limits on subs and how to escape them is an important facet of the game that needs practicing. Tap only as early as you need to to genuinely protect yourself (yes, with some people this will be earlier than others, it's incumbent upon you to know your training partners), not earlier.
Just don't go full Mitrione.
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He didnt let go when he tapped, ban him from ufc.
I care. Look, if you're a white or blue belt I don't really care if you tap early, but if you're purple or above and you tap early you're doing me a disservice by not letting me learn how to finish subs. Try and sub a black belt who really doesn't want to tap and tell me that finishing a locked in RNC or a fully extended arm bar requires no technique: you can't. I'm a brown belt, I'm not going to go apeshit and destroy your arm, don't be afraid. Especially if we train together a lot and you know me (more caution is needed with people you don't know). Nobody would say this about letting your guard get passed or getting mounted or what have you, the only reason you say it about subs is because you're irrationally afraid of getting hurt. We have a system in BJJ to prevent injury whereby when you reach the point of injury you give up and I let you go, and thus I learn how to apply subs and you learn how far you can go and how to escape. It works pretty well for all parties, if you start giving up early you're robbing yourself and me of the chance to learn an important skill set. Whether you train for sport, self defense, or MMA, knowing your limits on subs and how to escape them is an important facet of the game that needs practicing. Tap only as early as you need to to genuinely protect yourself (yes, with some people this will be earlier than others, it's incumbent upon you to know your training partners), not earlier.
First I'm not a purple quite yet and I would agree that at that level and above the game is different and you are officially no longer a beginner/novice so there are different rules
However I reject you or anyone trying to make another persons injury concern irrational. It's my job to protect my health and if that means tapping right before the arm is fully extended I feel good about it. You're not going to pay my medical bills and your not going to reimburse me for the two weeks I can't train because you torqued my arm because you "had to finish" that armbar.
I find that comp training is the time to up the ante on all things. But for a regular Tuesday I'm not there to make sure your finishing rate is good. There's a brown right over there to help with that. I'm going to make sure my arm or wrist is ok. And I'm there to learn and improve my Bjj.
Last thing for those who have never had it happen...when someone gets the arm and goes hard to finish and so hard that your arm hurts...them saying sorry bro I was just trying to finish doesn't make your arm feel better. Not even a little bit.
If you're that worried about getting hurt that you feel the need to tap the second a higher belt starts to put you in a joint lock, you should really consider whether you're comfortable doing BJJ at all. If it's due to pre-existing injury or whatever it's a different matter, but if it's just generalized anxiety about injury maybe take up ping pong. While you are not at the gym primarily to assist other people in getting better, no one can get better without good partners. Wigging out the second you get close to being subbed and tapping is definitely being a bad training partner if you're doing it all the time on all subs.
You don't no me, you don't know my Bjj journey and you don't know what injuries I've been through. The irony is you think I'm generalizing....
I'm comfortable in Bjj and don't like ping pong. But I'm a good sized guy. Not the biggest guy in my gym but about 6-1 210ish and you know what I got tired of that first 6 months?? Getting my arm torqued and hearing "man I didn't mean to go so hard but you're a strong guy if I don't go hard for it I won't get it". If I had a dollar for everyone that told me that back then Id have the best gi collection on earth. After one time where it happens to where I spit out my mouth piece yelling Xande pulled me aside and told me "you already made the mistake a while ago. Try one escape, tap, then discuss