Came from migrated parents, grew up in a so so rough area. My parents were barely home cause they like any parent had to work their asses off to try to put food on the table and put a roof on the head. I didnt really have any role models growing up. However my dad when he got the chance, used to lay the old school smackdown on me when he heard things he didnt like lol. While I find it funny now, growing up it used to bottle me up. As in something like I couldnt wait to get older so I can get revenge. I also used to hate when my younger siblings rat me out and I would wait to get a revenge opportunity on them. This kept building to the point were I hated my father and into my teens and young adulthood which eventually lead into a physical confrontation. While all is good now, looking back I just wish I was there more for my younger siblings and showed more respect after punishment from my father And since I've matured and realized all this, what still questions me is what would make your own child want to get revenge on you after some tough love or physical punishment? Isnt your child suppose to respect? I wouldnt want my own child to have to build hate and revenge after every punishment to only want to wait for the opportunity. Thoughts?