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Relationship on the decline.

Make her hate you for a cold hard winter. Then let her go and make it her fault.
 
Iudei said:
That was long time ago.

Me and my wife been together for 7 years, we still have sex 1-3 times a day, unless i got boxing practice.

To me looks like your realtionship is dying, try to have more sex maybe :wink:
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I always have a positive out look towards sex, I also view it as a major part of the emotional aspect of the relationship not just pleasure. I think if I will stick with this girl I will ask her to think of new ways to enjoy sex. She do initiate sex a lot but what I think she lacks is the creativity, It is all me who thinks up when it comes to foreplay, roleplays and all that naughty shit. She is very naive when it comes to sexuality in General and does not understand men's fetishes.

Doing the Missionary position for 4 years is really kinda boring she tries the woman on top but she could not main her riddum. Lolz

I am not saying its her fault I am not a Sex Machine either but at least I am the one do re search and think of new ideas on how to make it enjoying.

Maybe I should talk to her about that. Not only when it comes to sex she should have some more input into the relationship aside from those pretentious and Generic ones that she knows.
 
Three Gun Fish said:
You sound depressed, or like you got too much time on your hands. Don't make any major moves unless they are positive ones.

Measurable gains. And I don't mean looking at negatives like they were "a positive" bullshit either.

For now, concentrate on eating better and getting more exercise. You might think why bother, but that's just the quit in you trying to rule your life. Hustle, baby.
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I actually do think I am depressed right now, thats why I am not really sure if I don't like her or not I know it really sounds stupid but depression can make us stupid. Its not the first time I got depressed. Back in 2004 I became so depressed and so under weight that I fain by just getting up from bed very fast. And have been suicidal as well. But I am much more better now. Its actually only now that I realized that I was that deep before.
 
Sam Merlotte said:
Just after talking her into giving up the backdoor. :P
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Like a boss.

I normally breakup over Facebook but I'm living with this one. It would be real awkward if we were sitting on the couch together and she noticed her status was single.

I doubt she would get up and leave without confronting me.
 
PolishHeadlock said:
Like a boss.

I normally breakup over Facebook but I'm living with this one. It would be real awkward if we were sitting on the couch together and she noticed her status was single.

I doubt she would get up and leave without confronting me.
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My Facebook status right now is Single I already block her 1and half year ago after we had an argument.
 
PolishHeadlock said:
Like a boss.

I normally breakup over Facebook but I'm living with this one. It would be real awkward if we were sitting on the couch together and she noticed her status was single.

I doubt she would get up and leave without confronting me.
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She'd probably not even leave. Girls in a comfortable place to live are hard to evict, even if you treat them like garbage.
 
Imagine going through some things in life without her and see if you want her to be there to experience it with you (like seeing a beautiful sight or having success in a certain aspect and you want to share the news). Of course, there's natural feeling to want to do so, but be introspective and see if it's anything more.

Also, have some more 1on1 time with her while you guys do something new, not something normal and routine. If you enjoy her time and company in a refreshed way, that's awesome. If you simply can't no matter what, I still recommend trying to show her grace. Maybe you can talk things out with her and see how she feels? That's last case scenario though, as you might want to keep it to yourself and here. Look up things to rekindle a relationship, your case happens in marriages very often (and too often they lead to divorce).
 
Cheat on her.

Find another woman and sneak around. If you find that sneaking around doesn't make you enjoy your time with your #1 more then it's definitely time to go. If you find that sneaking around makes you try harder with your #1, you'll know you're just bored and need to step up the excitement you two share together.

You are welcome.
 
I wouldn't cheat on her, that would definitely ruin it... not that TS has much chance scoring anyhow...

he's in a rut and needs some self evaluation time.
 
ShinkanPo said:
I just feel that as the days go by I am losing all interest and care for my GF. We have dated since 2008. We had some great time together and was a lot of fun. But now I just don't feel the same anymore its like I no longer care. When I am with her now I am not as happy as before.

I am not yet thinking about breaking up because I am not really sure what to do. But it sure does suck I just feel like a douchebag.

So can anyone share their story if you had a similar issue. I felt the decline since last year.
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If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, don't you make a pretty woman your wife, go for my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you. If your friends say you have no taste, go ahead and marry her anyways.
 
ShinkanPo said:
I actually do think I am depressed right now, thats why I am not really sure if I don't like her or not I know it really sounds stupid but depression can make us stupid. Its not the first time I got depressed. Back in 2004 I became so depressed and so under weight that I fain by just getting up from bed very fast. And have been suicidal as well. But I am much more better now. Its actually only now that I realized that I was that deep before.
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You need more vitamin D, bro.
 
You haven't seen her in three weeks after dating for 4+ years, its already over dude.
Just need to call it.

At this time and at your age you should be thinking marriage, kids and shit, not if you are going to catch up next week or not.
 
RG3 said:
You're 30 and she's your first girlfriend? How old is she? Did you lose your virginity to her?
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She is 27, I am his first BF as well we both lose our virginity together.
 
panamaican said:
Cheat on her.

Find another woman and sneak around. If you find that sneaking around doesn't make you enjoy your time with your #1 more then it's definitely time to go. If you find that sneaking around makes you try harder with your #1, you'll know you're just bored and need to step up the excitement you two share together.

You are welcome.
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Wow. That is an interesting piece of advice. I would think this is leaving an awful lot up to chance.
 
ShinkanPo said:
I just feel that as the days go by I am losing all interest and care for my GF. We have dated since 2008. We had some great time together and was a lot of fun. But now I just don't feel the same anymore its like I no longer care. When I am with her now I am not as happy as before.

I am not yet thinking about breaking up because I am not really sure what to do. But it sure does suck I just feel like a douchebag.

So can anyone share their story if you had a similar issue. I felt the decline since last year.
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From what you describe you'd be more of a douche for sticking around than for breaking up. You deserve to be happy and she deserves to be with someone who loves her.
 
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