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Relationship on the decline.

Does she have any decent looking friends? We can do a double date.

Don't break up with her yet until I've seen the goods.
 
cooks1 said:
OK. It sounds like you have some work to do on yourself. Good for you to know.

I would not advise you to eject on the relationship just yet, simply because it does not sound like you have made any genuine attempts to improve the relationship and get it back on track. If you eject on relationships when they plateau without first trying to get them back on track, I assure you you will never maintain a long term relationship. No relationship just stays awesome all the time without periodic adjustment. It will also be a source of regret for you down the line if you do not make an effort to improve things before moving on. What would that say about you?

Also, though this chick has not really tried to reel you in from your deterioration, which is a black mark on her (everyone needs that in a partner) but she has also not just dumped you even though you are turning into a pile of crap. Now, this could be because she genuinely loves you and is hoping you will snap out of it, or it could be because she is in a rut herself and does not have the self esteem or the energy to cut you loose. You need to figure out which one it is.
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There is a lot of wisdom in these words, TS should read them again.
 
I know how girls love to orgasm and have their climax while we are still hard and pumping so she is not fulling
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Lol. :icon_chee

I can see English is your second language but this is funny shit.
 
You've been dating for over 4 years and you haven't seen her for 3 weeks?

She' getting some on the side. Probably got tired of your prejaculation.

My advice is to wait for the iPad, then text her "Sry bro, itz over", then switch teams completely.
 
It's a horrible feeling and one you learn to fear in every relationship.
 
cooks1 said:
OK. It sounds like you have some work to do on yourself. Good for you to know.

I would not advise you to eject on the relationship just yet, simply because it does not sound like you have made any genuine attempts to improve the relationship and get it back on track. If you eject on relationships when they plateau without first trying to get them back on track, I assure you you will never maintain a long term relationship. No relationship just stays awesome all the time without periodic adjustment. It will also be a source of regret for you down the line if you do not make an effort to improve things before moving on. What would that say about you?

Also, though this chick has not really tried to reel you in from your deterioration, which is a black mark on her (everyone needs that in a partner) but she has also not just dumped you even though you are turning into a pile of crap. Now, this could be because she genuinely loves you and is hoping you will snap out of it, or it could be because she is in a rut herself and does not have the self esteem or the energy to cut you loose. You need to figure out which one it is.
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I Like your advice, thanks.

I am always honest about my short comings, For I believe that, if we don't admit that we have flaws we can't improve as person. I just have this feeling that even if I improve my self and get a new Job and get fit, I just don't think I will be attracted to her again. Its just like the whole relationship is fizzling out.

Although like I said, I like your advice and will try to work on the relationship there is no harm in giving it a try.

If you eject on relationships when they plateau without first trying to get them back on track, I assure you you will never maintain a long term relationship. No relationship just stays awesome all the time without periodic adjustment.
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Yeah I think the relationship just reach its plateau. It seems it declined further when she back out from a planed marriage. She is not hard to please at all she just want a simple Wedding just infront of judge as she told me all that matters to her is we are Married and living together She is even the one who is asking me if I will Marry her so I said yes, A couple of months have passed after that conversation, and I proposed to her and she accepted it that was like October of last year and we planed to do it by Feb 2013, But just last month before New years eve. She just told me to forget all about that since she does not deserve to get married and that she does not want to ask any commitment from me. She even told me that she will just be a burden since during that time I am the one who makes more Money.
 
Linkuei said:
If you don't feel like this is something you want anymore think about and talk to her. See if there some way you to can figure out if you can make it work or why you are unhappy.

If that fails, go your seperate ways.
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Best advice in here.
 
Diktaattori said:
You've been dating for over 4 years and you haven't seen her for 3 weeks?

She' getting some on the side. Probably got tired of your prejaculation.

My advice is to wait for the iPad, then text her "Sry bro, itz over", then switch teams completely.
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The cool thing about going gay is you're probably not scared of going to jail anymore.

You might as well be going on a cruise after you commit a crime.
 
PolishHeadlock said:
The cool thing about going gay is you're probably not scared of going to jail anymore.

You might as well be going on a cruise after you commit a crime.
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But what about if you have hemorrhoids. Lolz
 
I'm also in a relationship since 2008 and I've had feelings before where I thought "is this really what I want?"

I was never really hateful, I just wasn't having as much fun in the relationship as before. I can't imagine feeling that for a year though.

Has your sex life changed? I know during that time period, our sex was at an all-time low.
 
PhilCam said:
I'm also in a relationship since 2008 and I've had feelings before where I thought "is this really what I want?"

I was never really hateful, I just wasn't having as much fun in the relationship as before. I can't imagine feeling that for a year though.

Has your sex life changed? I know during that time period, our sex was at an all-time low.
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Last time I had Sex was January 5 and it was really good it went for a long time. I use to suffer pre-mature ejaculation but I have improved greatly over time. And besides I rub her a lot which she really likes. We don't really have a problem with the sex department but I no longer find her attractive a bit.
 
Cook and.link.are right. U really need to talk to.her first and foremost. Its amazing how much one convo can change things for the better. But both of u need to be brutally honest n open
 
PolishHeadlock said:
If you haven't seen her in 3 weeks it is basically over.

Just text her less and less and than break contact all together.

There are plenty of girls out there for you to disappoint sexually.
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That's pretty funny
 
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