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Relationship on the decline.

Talk to her about it instead of taking it to Sherdog. What are you, too proud? If this doesn't get fixed it's going to end anyway, might as well give it a try.
 
Talk to her about it instead of taking it to Sherdog. What are you, too proud? If this doesn't get fixed it's going to end anyway, might as well give it a try.

Some times hearing other peoples ideas can give people a new perspective on things.
 
Cook and.link.are right. U really need to talk to.her first and foremost. Its amazing how much one convo can change things for the better. But both of u need to be brutally honest n open

You're typing from an android phone aren't you
 
Come on OP, tell the whole story.

my interest in traps are merely a sexual curiosity thing nothing against them but its just that I don't see my self in serious relationship with them. And I never cheated on my GF.
 
Talk to her about it instead of taking it to Sherdog. What are you, too proud? If this doesn't get fixed it's going to end anyway, might as well give it a try.

As you can see Cook1 and link gave a really good advice and game me a new perspective on the situation just as you said give it a try.
 
I'm also in a relationship since 2008 and I've had feelings before where I thought "is this really what I want?"

I was never really hateful, I just wasn't having as much fun in the relationship as before. I can't imagine feeling that for a year though.

Has your sex life changed? I know during that time period, our sex was at an all-time low.

This post with your av made me lol
 
do you still have as much sex as you had in the beginning?
 
do you still have as much sex as you had in the beginning?

Last time we had it was last January 5, Although I would say before that the Quality of sex really did improve.
 
Last time we had it was last January 5, Although I would say before that the Quality of sex really did improve.

That was long time ago.

Me and my wife been together for 7 years, we still have sex 1-3 times a day, unless i got boxing practice.

To me looks like your realtionship is dying, try to have more sex maybe :wink:
 
I just feel that as the days go by I am losing all interest and care for my GF. We have dated since 2008. We had some great time together and was a lot of fun. But now I just don't feel the same anymore its like I no longer care. When I am with her now I am not as happy as before.

I am not yet thinking about breaking up because I am not really sure what to do. But it sure does suck I just feel like a douchebag.

So can anyone share their story if you had a similar issue. I felt the decline since last year.

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Pretty much how I've been feeling about my 3 year relationship for the past couple of months.
 
Break it off before its too late. You're gonna regret not doing it sooner trust me. Break ups are like pulling off a band aid
 
you need to picture her with another man, preferably like black man. that will reignite your passion for the girl. if simple imagination don't do it try and talk her into a cuckold session.
 
You sound depressed, or like you got too much time on your hands. Don't make any major moves unless they are positive ones.

Measurable gains. And I don't mean looking at negatives like they were "a positive" bullshit either.

For now, concentrate on eating better and getting more exercise. You might think why bother, but that's just the quit in you trying to rule your life. Hustle, baby.
 
Think about another dude fucking her and how that would make you feel honestly.
 
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