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Wow, it wasn't a ruse, this is simply who you are as a person.Your entire post is a contradiction and the person reducing things into black and white is you. No one is taking anything away from accountability and accountability does not mean labeling. Accountability means someone did something that he should take ownership of.
It is you reducing into black and white and piece of shit or not. That is actually what black and white means as you have it upside down.
Rather than more objectively thinking about the behavior, when we engage in labeling, we globally describe the whole person.
Lets say Someone who drinks too much and because of his drinking hits his wife, is he a piece of shit or is his drinking leading him to beat or hurt his wife multiple times.No one is invalidating that he has hit his wife but what is being said is that his drinking is leading him to do it. He needs to stop drinking, but it does not make him a piece of shit as a whole. He could be a very nice guy but his drinking and his insecurity are making him turn into a terrible husband.
The reality is that it is context
I hope you get food poisoning and have mud butt for a week.