This reply doesn't advance the discussion. If you don't want to engage in the conversation, then don't. Instead of making replies that don't mean much.
There are several reasons why a message may not make sense. It could be that the sender is not being clear, or it could be that the receiver is just not capable of understanding. If you don't understand something, you should ask for clarification.
I hope you are a child on his teen yrs, to have such an ignorant and backward mindset on things you obviously know nothing about.
No need for ad hominem fallacies. Many people have a negative response to words like argument, power, control, influence. They often associate these words with sinister motives and draconian actions. I could be wrong, but I suspect you are one those people who get a bad reaction when they hear words like power, control, influence and etc in the context of social relationships.
However, your emotional response doesn't negate a fact that sociologists have repeatedly observed through years of studies. There is generally a power dynamic in most social relationships. One person using its power to influence another is not always nefarious.
For example, a person controlling its partner in a relationship doesn't necessarily mean beating the partner, being paranoid about the partner's behavior, dictating what the partner can wear, who can it can be friends with and etc.
It could be as simple as having a strong character, consistently demonstrating accountability, responsibility and reliability and etc.
Conclusion, there are positive (i.e. less harmful) methods of using power to influence and control people in a relation. Many women are happy following their men's lead because they genuinely trust the men, and their men have proven themselves to be reasonable and capable of partners.