Yeah I do static holds, #2 attempts, and negatives with the #2.5. It's just going to take time.
Get them! We need more people doing regular grip training.
Do you think you are going to change programs? You're at the point as a lifter where you shouldn't expect to be hitting PRs every week. Obviously it's your decision, but I just want to make sure that temporary setbacks don't cloud the "big picture". Type A personalities have a tendency to get really frustrated if they don't get to their goals instantly.
I think the most important things is to see if you are making regular progress from cycle to cycle and just give the program the time and opportunity to work. I mean, at the very least, you're gaining 5lbs on your bench and press a month, and 10 on your squats and deads. Over a course of a year, assuming you don't stall out, that is 60lbs on your bench and press, and 120lbs on your squat and dead. That is not bad progress at all.
I'm probably going to switch after 5 cycles. I just started my 4th. I actually haven't gained any 1RM strength on any of the lifts that I'm using the 5/3/1 for. All of my PR's lately have been on lifts where I'm not using the 5/3/1. I just tested my squat today and tried a +5 lbs PR, and failed miserably twice. Here is my take on it for each lift:
Squats: Right now, it seems as though what I really need to work on is having heavy weight on my back. I just jumped from 275 lbs to try 330 lbs and the weight seemed unreal on my back. I didn't even feel comfortable holding it. Sure, I'm hitting rep PR's here and there, but my form is also breaking down big time on those reps. Honestly, if I wasn't doing 5/3/1 right now, I'd be drilling heavy weight low reps to get used to the weight.
Deadlifts: This 5/3/1 was a needed change. I'll always be more of a fan of singles with deadlifts. But I'm glad that I did this routine for some periodization. I haven't tested my 1RM, but I can tell you weight like 435 lbs isn't going up as quick as it should if I want to be doing 485 lbs. We'll see. If I were to predict which lift I have the highest likelihood for gains on this program, it would be deads.
Bench Press: I'm really working on form, so it's hard to really judge this. Much like squats, when I reach weight approximately 90% of my 1RM, I'm so shaky it's unreal. If I weren't in the 5/3/1, I'd be drilling singles and doubles more. I'm hitting rep PR's to where my estimated 1RM should be 265 lbs, but I failed on 250 lbs. The weight just feels so heavy and my form breaks down.
SOHP: No complaints here. I like the 5/3/1 for this lift. I'm still unsure about a gain in 1RM, but we'll see. I do like the program for this.
With all of that said above, I think it's important to note that I have also lost 11+ lbs and my conditioning has gone through the roof. I've also made gains in Front Squats, Push Press, Overhead Squat, Chins, Pullups, etc. It's not really fair to blame lack of gains on the 4 lifts on the program, and I'm not trying to do that. My focus has been on conditioning a bit more so strength gains aren't really necessary.
The bottom line with me and lifting is that it's not for a competition or anything. I don't get too bent out of shape. The main goal for me is to have fun, but I seem to have the most fun when I'm making gains and hitting new 1RM's. I've noticed that I'm more of a fan of putting up heavy singles, doubles, and triples. It's just what I like and I think it's supported my gains the most in the past. I definitely feel like I need to give the 5/3/1 two more months, and I have no problem doing that since I'll still be losing weight and working on conditioning. After that, I am designing my own program to work on my weaknesses on the big 3. I will cut out some conditioning, bulk a bit (185-190 lbs), and focus 90% on strength, 10% on GPP and conditioning. Right now I'm at about 40% strength and 60% conditioning/gpp.