I'm surprised the asshole line came from you, actually. I don't remember many names on this board, but you're one of the level headed posters that can be trusted to not jump in with the mob.
I have no idea how I would mourn. I am forever shocked that there isn't more vigilantism about, and probably attribute it to depression sapping all energy or something. I don't know what my response would be to even just getting a phone call saying there's been a shooting.
The thread title was misleading. "The school" made me personally instantly tweak and go "this fucking litigious culture". But then I thought about it, and the more I thought about it, the more this made sense. Who is going to pay for the potential forever counselling? What are these people going through? What if the mother is literally unable to ever let the child out of her sight, ever?
Would I sue? I don't know, because I don't know how I would respond. But I'd give the parents the benefit of the doubt on this one and wait until the case is heard. Maybe it'll get thrown out, maybe it'll lead to the society realising some things. At face value, the coffee case doesn't sound legit at all. Are you sure you won't be revising your stance on this one once you've read up on it a few years down the track?