At that age, girls are tough. You don’t come across many timid girls in wrestling at that age. Many boys end up in wrestling because dad wrestled in high school or because the parents are trying to toughen them up. The girls who tell dad, “I don’t want to wrestle, I want to do ballet” usually don’t get forced on the wrestling mat.
Which state, out of curiosity? One of my son’s 2 losses last season was a girl an age group up who was something absurd like 105-4 on the season. I was just crossing my fingers he avoided a tech fall or pin.