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Relationships my crush rejected me

Pierce 34 said:
I asked this coworker out I had a crush on and she rejected me, and that pain burned me. So I'm gonna decide to change things in my life for the better

1. Lose weight and start to eat healthy
2. Put on muscle and get a good physique
3. Get a motorcycle license and be a motorcycle guy
4. Learn a martial arts, and compete in fights. Im thinking Muay Thai
5. Get a high paying job
6. Become a better social person and get better at flirting with women
7. Make sure I have a good haircut and better fashion

You just lit a fire under my ass, thanks
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8. Get 2-3 really nice colognes. Smell freaking wonderful wherever you go, making others be like "Damn, he smells good."
 
So you got rejected. So what. That's part of the dating game. You don't know if you don't try. Don't go all woe is me. Sack up and ask another 5 women out over the next few months. It's a numbers game.

Congratulations on trying with your crush you should be proud of yourself just for that and not crying in your cheerios

All the stuff you said isn't bad things but do them for yourself, the women will either like you or they won't regardless. And you won't know unless you keep shooting the ball.
 
Pierce 34 said:
I asked this coworker out I had a crush on and she rejected me, and that pain burned me. So I'm gonna decide to change things in my life for the better

1. Lose weight and start to eat healthy
2. Put on muscle and get a good physique
3. Get a motorcycle license and be a motorcycle guy
4. Learn a martial arts, and compete in fights. Im thinking Muay Thai
5. Get a high paying job
6. Become a better social person and get better at flirting with women
7. Make sure I have a good haircut and better fashion

You just lit a fire under my ass, thanks
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I dont know about the motorcycle but the others are worthwhile. I would humbly suggest that you don't date coworkers, even if you could. If things go south between you and you end things on a bad note you may have just made your life a whole lot more difficult.
 
Work on building relationships with women. If a girl likes you, she’ll step into your zone.
 
Congrats on your get rich or die trying moment. At least you don't have to get shot 9 times.
 
Razberry said:
I dont know about the motorcycle but the others are worthwhile. I would humbly suggest that you don't date coworkers, even if you could. If things go south between you and you end things on a bad note you may have just made your life a whole lot more difficult.
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Or together for 35 years tomorrow...
 
TS sounds like he just landed on earth and made a list of things to help him disguise himself as a man.
 
It's happened to me back in the days, you'll live. Get swole, and good at math, so you can be this guy.


 
Fellow Sherbro, I went through something very similar as well.

Kinda hurt initially but at the same time relieved to have some pressure off

I am 1-1 on the year. Lost the girl, got the job promotion and coming up is Brown Belt test. It was alot all at once, now I'm very focused, body is feeling good and should be ready for April
 
Pierce 34 said:
I asked this coworker out I had a crush on and she rejected me, and that pain burned me. So I'm gonna decide to change things in my life for the better

1. Lose weight and start to eat healthy
2. Put on muscle and get a good physique
3. Get a motorcycle license and be a motorcycle guy
4. Learn a martial arts, and compete in fights. Im thinking Muay Thai
5. Get a high paying job
6. Become a better social person and get better at flirting with women
7. Make sure I have a good haircut and better fashion

You just lit a fire under my ass, thanks
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In other words, you looked on the mirror and realized why she rejected you.

It's the root of all motivation to better yourself to be worthy of the women you want.

Or, to better yourself so the women you want will crave you.

<Y2JSmirk>
 
GearSolidMetal said:
In other words, you looked on the mirror and realized why she rejected you.

It's the root of all motivation to better yourself to be worthy of the women you want.

Or, to better yourself so the women you want will crave you.

<Y2JSmirk>
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He used the word crush so we have no context for what kind of relationship they had prior to his asking out. I wouldn't use the word crush at all really but definitely not for someone that I had a rapport/chemistry with and asking her out was a natural progression.

I don't think dating coworkers is necessarily bad, depending on the circumstances, but this may be asking out a woman at work who only knows him as the guy who farts after lunch. That's basically just bothering someone at work.
 
All you have done is list 7 more things you will fail at.

To be successful your motivation has to come from honest, internal desires, it is impossible to achieve success if it is based on external acceptance criteria
 
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