Mistress is Pregnant

So this guys needs the truth, if you think his girlfriend cheating on him might mess with his head -imagine what aborting a second trimester baby (by the time she gets around to it) that he thinks is his -could possibly do to him (not sure on his stance) if he wants to be with her longterm (marriage or something) -also their relationship is screwed regardless long term with a devious secret like that underlying the foundation so why not get the truth now.

Also -this chick is twisted -you should give her the angry pirate and get out.
 
I would take this chance to cut ties with said crazy bitch

+1

You need to just push away from the table and cash in... This thing isn't going to get any better. Just cut ties, let her deal with the guy, and run far away.
 
Why do i get the feeling I will be seeing on an episode of Maury Povich soon

Edit - Too slow lol
 
Yes, I know it's another girl problem thread in the Mayberry, sorry. But this is a very f'd up situation. So here it goes.

There is this chick that I have been having sex with for about the past seven months. She has had a boyfriend for the past year or so; however, the past seven months it has been a long distance relationship for them since the guy moved out of state. Hence when I came in. So, this last Friday she came to me and informed me she is pregnant and wants an abortion. I was perfectly fine with this. But this is where it gets messy. Her boyfriend is coming to visit her this week and she wants to claim that it's his to keep their relationship intact. She already told him that she is pregnant and the boyfriend thinks it's from the last time they had sex which is two and a half months ago..... This guy must be naive as shit but that's beside the point. I see a huge moral issue here and I struggle to keep my silence on the issue to the boyfriend. I mean, he is going to pay for the damn abortion. I also tried explaining to her that she should just tell the poor guy and she had none of it. She claimed that he would "kill" himself.

Bottom line she is keeping this guy in the dark and wants to make him believe he got her pregnant. This is find truly disturbing. Advice? Should I tell the guy? or just let things ride?

P.S. this is the same chick I posted about in a "crazies" thread a long while back. Figures lol

cut ties with her and stop being a piece of shit. what kind of self respecting individual purposely sleeps with another mans significant other. a ****, thats who. you sir are a ****.
 
cut ties with her and stop being a piece of shit. what kind of self respecting individual purposely sleeps with another mans significant other. a ****, thats who. you sir are a ****.

Like I said before. It is shitty of me. But she is to blame not me. She has the commitment.
 
There are probably other guys involved

came here to post this. if shes the type of girl who can carry on a long term relationship, have an affair, and lie about a pregnancy to the guy shes with........chances are she is lying to you too. probably other guys and she doesn't know whose it is.
 
She's giving you a clean exit. Take it. Don't complicate things, just walk away.
 
i would bet if you decide to tell the guy she will tell a shitload of lies to make it look like youre a stalker or you tried to rape her. and you will end up fighting that guy. he will believe her not you. and she doesnt tell the truth
 
cut ties with her and stop being a piece of shit. what kind of self respecting individual purposely sleeps with another mans significant other. a ****, thats who. you sir are a ****.

Doesn't Nihilism deny any sort of moral code or absolute? You should practice what you preach.
 
She's crazy, and you are weak and dumb. Having sex with someone in a relationship is weak and not putting on a damn condom is dumb.
 
you have a mistress and you have issues with immorality?
 
The solution is almost as simple as in that stats thread.

(1) allow the boyfriend to pay for the abortion
(2) provide mistress with funds to purchase iPad
(3) have mistress give thus purchased iPad to boyfriend

Done. Technically, the boyfriend pays for abortion. But in reality, all is as it should be.
 
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