Mistress is Pregnant

Ryan Wagner said:
I find the thought of a guy possibly spending the rest of his life, or any length of time, with a woman who cheated on him and got pregnant by another guy absolutely horrifying and rage-inducing. Tell him or I will hate you, ts.

If a guy told me he got my girl pregnant, I would thank him; unless he was a friend of mine, then I'd beat him up and then thank him, and then beat him up again.

If this was your girlfriend, what would you want the other guy to do?
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I'm down with this. Only problem is that the girl would lie and the bf would believe her over the TS

OR

The bf gets set free, and the girl rolls a pram up to the TS house in 9 months.
 
1. She's a completely terrible person. It's crap like this why I don't trust anyone, and as a military man who deploys, I feel justified about having people keep tabs on what my fiancee is up to when I am on the other side of the planet.

2. You're a scum-bag too. Don't just project the blame onto her. You're just as much at fault as she is.

3. Tell this guy what's going on here. As crappy as this is going to be, this guy deserves to know what this b**** is doing. The last thing he needs is to go on thinking that his child is being aborted. Don't worry about him killing himself. The girl is probably just saying that so that she doesn't have to face her boyfriend. The boyfriend deserves to be able to face this opportunity like a man.
 
jwifly said:
Yes, I know it's another girl problem thread in the Mayberry, sorry. But this is a very f'd up situation. So here it goes.

There is this chick that I have been having sex with for about the past seven months. She has had a boyfriend for the past year or so; however, the past seven months it has been a long distance relationship for them since the guy moved out of state. Hence when I came in. So, this last Friday she came to me and informed me she is pregnant and wants an abortion. I was perfectly fine with this. But this is where it gets messy. Her boyfriend is coming to visit her this week and she wants to claim that it's his to keep their relationship intact. She already told him that she is pregnant and the boyfriend thinks it's from the last time they had sex which is two and a half months ago..... This guy must be naive as shit but that's beside the point. I see a huge moral issue here and I struggle to keep my silence on the issue to the boyfriend. I mean, he is going to pay for the damn abortion. I also tried explaining to her that she should just tell the poor guy and she had none of it. She claimed that he would "kill" himself.

Bottom line she is keeping this guy in the dark and wants to make him believe he got her pregnant. This is find truly disturbing. Advice? Should I tell the guy? or just let things ride?

P.S. this is the same chick I posted about in a "crazies" thread a long while back. Figures lol
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Congratulations for being the biggest piece of shit. Cut ties and take her to get a abortion. If she doesn't want to, well your fucked an i cant say i have much sympathy for you either because you are an idiot douche bag. An do yourself a favor quit trying to act like its anymore her fault then your own. You could have never slept with her in the beginning, you sounds like a helpless little kid. Either way Sack up, change your number an learn from your selfish mistakes. An if your stuck with a kid you didn't want, well tough shit..i dont have respect for cheater.
 
sub_thug said:
1. She's a completely terrible person. It's crap like this why I don't trust anyone, and as a military man who deploys, I feel justified about having people keep tabs on what my fiancee is up to when I am on the other side of the planet.

2. You're a scum-bag too. Don't just project the blame onto her. You're just as much at fault as she is.

3. Tell this guy what's going on here. As crappy as this is going to be, this guy deserves to know what this b**** is doing. The last thing he needs is to go on thinking that his child is being aborted. Don't worry about him killing himself. The girl is probably just saying that so that she doesn't have to face her boyfriend. The boyfriend deserves to be able to face this opportunity like a man.
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Very much agreed. Man fuck, I am a shit head.
 
And if she was genuinely worried that he was going to kill himself if she cheated, why did she fuck you in the first place?
 
bmasters1993 said:
I'm down with this. Only problem is that the girl would lie and the bf would believe her over the TS

OR

The bf gets set free, and the girl rolls a pram up to the TS house in 9 months.
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That's a chance he would have to take; any sensible man would realize that she's cheating when they have a long distance relationship, haven't fucked for months, and some guy just happens to know about her pregnancy (that he caused)

As for the having the baby thing, he was careless enough to impregnate the bitch.

Like I said, he doesn't have to, but I will forever hate him if he doesn't.

jwifly said:
Very much agreed. Man fuck, I am a shit head.
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I don't know you and I don't know if this is true; what I do know is that you acted like a shit head. One fuckup, however colossal it may be, doesn't define you.
 
You are the mistress TS not her and you are also a scumbag.

If you're gonna tell her BF, be prepared to get touched with teh jab.
 
MortalWombat said:
The solution is almost as simple as in that stats thread.

(1) allow the boyfriend to pay for the abortion
(2) provide mistress with funds to purchase iPad
(3) have mistress give thus purchased iPad to boyfriend

Done. Technically, the boyfriend pays for abortion. But in reality, all is as it should be.
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ahahahahahaha
 
Ryan Wagner said:
That's a chance he would have to take; any sensible man would realize that she's cheating when they have a long distance relationship, haven't fucked for months, and some guy just happens to know about her pregnancy (that he caused)

As for the having the baby thing, he was careless enough to impregnate the bitch.

Like I said, he doesn't have to, but I will forever hate him if he doesn't.
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I agree with you.

Basically he has to choose between keeping morality together, or his life together.
 
jwifly said:
You sir have my thanks. I'm completely convinced now. Well said. I will tell him and update you guys soon enough.
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I'm glad you chose to tell him. That must have been a very difficult decision to make, especially when walking away would be much easier.

I hope that, if I am ever in the situation of the boyfriend, the other man will make the same decision.
 
You've made the wrong but are attempting to atone - I personally don't hold any judgment on you but you have to learn from this one man! All I can say is, imagine if you were him and your Mrs was pregnant with another man's child? Not only that, but can you imagine the guilt this guy would carry for the rest of his life knowing that he ended the possibility of someone entering the world, that's fkd up.

Looking forward to hear how it goes, you're doing the right thing man!
 
Wait nevermind. You can't risk her wanting to keep the child out of anger towards you for telling him. First, wait for the abortion and once you have verified that she went through it....tell the poor guy everything!!!
 
Is it just me or does this Gheyberry relationship thread actually deliver?
 
jwifly said:
Yes, I know it's another girl problem thread in the Mayberry, sorry. But this is a very f'd up situation. So here it goes.

There is this chick that I have been having sex with for about the past seven months. She has had a boyfriend for the past year or so; however, the past seven months it has been a long distance relationship for them since the guy moved out of state. Hence when I came in. So, this last Friday she came to me and informed me she is pregnant and wants an abortion. I was perfectly fine with this. But this is where it gets messy. Her boyfriend is coming to visit her this week and she wants to claim that it's his to keep their relationship intact. She already told him that she is pregnant and the boyfriend thinks it's from the last time they had sex which is two and a half months ago..... This guy must be naive as shit but that's beside the point. I see a huge moral issue here and I struggle to keep my silence on the issue to the boyfriend. I mean, he is going to pay for the damn abortion. I also tried explaining to her that she should just tell the poor guy and she had none of it. She claimed that he would "kill" himself.

Bottom line she is keeping this guy in the dark and wants to make him believe he got her pregnant. This is find truly disturbing. Advice? Should I tell the guy? or just let things ride?

P.S. this is the same chick I posted about in a "crazies" thread a long while back. Figures lol
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You have a moral obligation to tell the boyfriend.

You also have a moral obligation to stop the abortion.

As you are a moral coward, you won't do either, so why am I wasting time giving you advice?
 
jwifly said:
I would agree. But really she is at fault. I don't know the guy and she's the one with the commitment not me. I have never cheated before.
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Exactly.

Fuck it, I'd feel bad for the guy but he might not have a problem with abortion, if it doesn't freak him out then I'd just worry about making a clean break for myself, if I was you.

Do you enjoy the drama or are you just that desperate for sex?
 
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Why is it a surprise to you that she's been lying to him about whose baby it is when she has been lying to him about screwing you?

Why are you morally outraged by this when she's been screwing you behind his back?

Stop drawing arbitrary moral lines. You're not in a position to do that.

Just step out of it. It's not your business anymore. Forget it and move on.
 
Make sure she's gets that abortion or tell the guy. That's the best thing you can do now. Wow you're a bad person.
 
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