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Totally agree.A lot of what I'v seen more recently tends to suggest a big factor which drives social evolution isnt how good it is for the lives of those involved(beyond perhaps those at the very top), rather its whether it will be able to sustain a larger population with more power to wage war. People didn't stop being hunter gathers or even nomadic headers because settled agriculture made their lives better, rather agriculture made for larger more powerful cultures which could force the former out or force them to convert themselves.
Yes I do tend to think even if you look at outward traits rather than the underlying dog eat dog nature of our society it is actually very masculine even today. The US culturally I think really remains wedded to the idea of the frontier like hands on man, still really a nation of cowboys and it obviously has a massive influence across the world. I'd say its part of the reason for example why massive SUV's are so popular.
You could look back a bit further and a western gent looked more like...
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I don't think calling for a hypermasculine society is the answer. Some people look at islamic societies as the answer but I found a lot of men from these places to be emotional and child-like because since they never had to be held accountable. They're men so they're automatically treated with more respect. Also remember who colonized who and who still for the most part have more powerful economies and militaries.
I believe societies, just like individuals, need to seek a balance of the masculine and feminine. This another topic, but personally I found that being more attuned to my inner feminine actually gives my masculine side more space to grow.