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having lived in Asia and witnessed the expat community (mostly Danes, Germans, Norwegians)bad mouth the Asians and their 'lack' of civility in public settings, i.e. eating, talking on cells, it always made me laugh traveling with euros at airports who seemed to leave all civility behind when it came to queueing . pushing to the front not caring and then acting like they weren't aware when they were called out on it.
Which Asians were they were referring to? Certainly couldn't be the Japanese. Theyre probably the most accommodating people there are. They apologize profusely if they think they inconvenienced you in the slightest.
 
Which Asians were they were referring to? Certainly couldn't be the Japanese. Theyre probably the most accommodating people there are. They apologize profusely if they think they inconvenienced you in the slightest.
this is during my time in chins, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand
 
I love when someone tries to get on before I get off the public transport because I Just walk straight over them and ask them wtf they're doing. Works great every time because since you come off from a higher platform it's so easy to steamroll them.
This is as funny as the trying to get off the plane before the door's opened. I'm not a big person structure wise but I'm getting off this fucking subway train whether you like it or not. I had to get off a tube in London with two cases and a roll along laptop bag during rush hour. Do not fuck with me haha. Flipside, a very polite English gentleman saw I was about to get on an escalator with two cases and the roll along and did it all for me. And getting off a train in Berkshire with some bloke behind me yelling at me because I Couldn't lift my case onto the platform a passenger trying to get on helped me get it out.
 
I love when someone tries to get on before I get off the public transport because I Just walk straight over them and ask them wtf they're doing. Works great every time because since you come off from a higher platform it's so easy to steamroll them.
As I said somewhere upthread, there are a lot of personal variables affecting how bad things will be for an individual. A 6'7", in shape and intimidating-looking 25-year-old male will have a better time doing what you've described than a 5'5" woman in her 70s for instance. But if you do this enough times, no matter how nails you are you'd better be wearing a stab-proof vest (as well as be ready to throw hands and then get arrested).


Edit: Literally this news story, which I remembered:



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The level of women interrupting you is an epidemic at this point. Even middle-class, White British women in their 60s in the bank or something. Again this degeneration is not limited to the scratters.

Try going about your business, shop, ticket office, library, phone call to company, council office, train conductor - any context that involves you talking to a woman you don't know, who is on duty. It seems to be about 70% she will repeatedly interrupt you. You won't get to the end of a ten-word sentence without being interrupted. Asking/telling her to stop interrupting you of course just makes things worse. Men are also doing this, but a lot less often, and they do tend to stop when you ask/tell them to. Maybe your sex makes a difference there.

What can you do really? Barring a revolution - withdraw from public spaces - which I am observing happening by the more civilised elements of society.

Do everything possible online.

Live in a fucking gated community, that's probably coming in a few years.

Be a worse and more dominant bully than the individuals you are dealing with? In some contexts yes, but where the woman has an institution backing her up and you don't, she'll just invoke that and have you banned from the building, call the cops etc.

Complain to head office - firstly 95% of members of the public won't do that, because they are NPCS. Secondly, even if 5% complain, and I expect these institutions are starting to get a lot of complaints about their rude staff from the 5%, or just people in older generations who have maintained the earlier standards internally, it's not going to make a significant difference. That just isn't how society works.

Maybe, along the lines of gated communities, parallel 'walled' institutions will develop. Like first class on the trains or business class when flying, where they have separate waiting rooms and everything. Maybe upmarket supermarkets and private libraries and stuff will jack up their prices and restrict membership and whatnot to keep things more civilised for their stratum of patrons.
 
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The other day, the drive thru drop box was unavailable due to construction, so I had to wait in line to pay. I just wanted to drop off. Line moved so damn slow too.
 
I often take take the train in France. Those that aren't just local little ones have numbered seats.

I remember as a kid everybody respecting to a T thoses seats. Now half the time when I get on board my place is taken. Sometimes I politely tell them that they're taking my spot (I like being by the window watching the scenerie pass by) and to move their ass but sometimes I'm in a bad mood and don't want to get aggro or it seems like to muche a hassle (boomer or youngster with shoes off, computer out, eating stuff or fat african mama taking 1,5 seat with crying baby playing videos loud on phone and food and shit everywhere ....) so I just let it be and go somewhere else ... wich is potentially someone place and can get a domino effect going.

Hate this shit.
 
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i went to a concert a few months ago and got there late, I went to what I thought was the merch line as there was a fairly large line of people that looked like it was headed towards the merch booth.

I waited a good ten minutes in this line as it didn't move an inch. Finally I gave up and walked to get beer and try again later, as I looked from another angle I noticed there was an actual merch line that was much shorter and the line I was waiting in lead right back into the standing room area. I have no idea how this happened but I walked over and said something to a chorus of aww what the fuck I told you so's
 
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