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No, I don't make your point for you. You make my point for me. One of the things a person who gets sober has to do is face the consequences of the wreckage of their past. Unfortunately prison, jail and fines are very often needed and required in order to do that and are faced with courage and a sense of personal responsibility.You make my point. thanks.
Yes if your father is in the throws of his alcoholism, then rescuing him from consequences can do more harm than good and a tough love parent would recognize that.
Similarly, if your father had escaped his alcoholism dependency for a decade, reformed his life, made amends for his crimes, but the system wanted to open them up and put him in jail for them, a good father would pardon his son, knowing that this rehash and secondary punishment would be the thing likely to tip him back into addiction.
Just putting the alcohol or the drug down is the very beginning of recovery which is a lifelong process.. Then the person has to amend, face, uncover, discover and discard all of the dishonest, selfish, illegal behavior that they have lived.
You have no idea what you're talking about and I have years and years of experience in this field with hundreds and hundreds of people.
So it is demonstrably false that any father would do what Biden did. It is true that some fathers would but it is not true that any father would for lots and lots of reasons.