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is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

Is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

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Banchan said:
i mean it just started because im confused.

30 pages later i dont think im any less confused.
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I've learned a lot about certain people in this thread that has shed light on a lot of the interactions that occur on this board.
 
lesnarsneedle said:
Hey guy, after something happens over and over, it is what it is.

Your "view" on a mouse getting dropped into a snake's cage doesn't change that it's going to eat the mouse every time.
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Hey, you're proving my point with the fact I have to point out to you how your analogy fails.

We're not animals. We're people who are subjected to morality, whether you like it or not.

You can reject morality, and that proves my point in this thread, those who say its not wrong to have sex with a married person says far more of their moral compass (or lack of it) and their respect of marriage.

Once again, thank you for proving my first post correct.
 
lesnarsneedle said:
Hey guy, after something happens over and over, it is what it is.

Your "view" on a mouse getting dropped into a snake's cage doesn't change that it's going to eat the mouse every time.
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If you keep getting cheated on it says more about you than anything else.

Just saying.
 
Soda Popinsky said:
That's because most WR posters are white supremacists with an incentive to discredit mainstream news outlets like CNN. I haven't seen the poll. But I don't have to to know that most people in the WR will say CNN is biased.
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I wouldn't recommend checking it out then, your head might implode with internets rage.
 
Yes. No. Who cares.

/thread.

Seriously, tired of seeing this garbage on first page.

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What it boils down too is that cheating, by definition, is wrong . If they are ok with it, then it's not cheating. If they dont know, that just means you werent caught cheating......yet.
 
GearSolidMetal said:
Hey, you're proving my point with the fact I have to point out to you how your analogy fails.

We're not animals. We're people who are subjected to morality, whether you like it or not.

You can reject morality, and that proves my point in this thread, those who say its not wrong to have sex with a married person says far more of their moral compass (or lack of it) and their respect of marriage.

Once again, thank you for proving my first post correct.
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No, actually, I'm proving that you have no clue what you're talking about.

We are animals, but that's beside the point.

My analogy was perfectly fine, it had nothing to do with the fact that the snake and mouse are animals.

What the point is, is that your "view" on the situation doesn't change the fact that it exists.

Your view on gravity doesnt change the fact that it's there and will pull you

Your view on water doesn't change the fact that it freezes at 32 degrees.

You don't seem to understand this simple, common sense concept.
 
koolinkunming said:
If you keep getting cheated on it says more about you than anything else.

Just saying.
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1. I don't give a cunt the opportunity to fuck me over so that's not even a discussion.

2. Seeing as how you and everyone else in here say that women are loyal wonderful creatures and that it's up to the person in the relationship to not break their promises, your post is absolutely contradictory.

Person 1 cheating has nothing to do with person 2. It's up to person number 1 to not cheat. So it doesn't say jack shit about person 2.

You're lost.


Just saying.


Nice try though.
 
DataBreach said:
Yes. No. Who cares.

/thread.

Seriously, tired of seeing this garbage on first page.

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how women process emotional conflicts is like this

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cant just make up the mind and stick with it. you reprocess a problem continually until it just overwhelms you. its like continually running the same piece of paper into a printer until it jams and rips to shreds making the printer useless until you fish out all the pieces of paper jammed into the components.
 
Soda Popinsky said:
The sarcasm did not escape me. I thought 5 years had been long enough that she couldn't hide who she really was. And finishing that 5 years with a week in Vegas where she did a strip tease, fucked my brains out, and let me fuck her in the ass, I figured I was ready. Apparently not. As soon as we married, it was like a switch flipped and she turned into every other woman who is married. Honestly, the disparity between who women pretend to be when single or dating, and who they really are is nothing short of amazing.
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OK You've always seemed like a decent poster so my advice is first, don't take advice from sherdog posters at all and second, especially the most bitter person with regards to women on this forum I have seen.

I regret the position you find yourself in but an affair for you seems like it would hardly help. It seems more like a cry for help that would create regrets. So instead go get help. Get a relationship therapist and make sure you find one you like. So there is some advice from someone telling you not to take advice from sherdog. Irony!

Soda Popinsky said:
It's true.

But the thing is, they don't even know they're doing it. It's kind of how we are different people when we want to fuck them, vs after we fuck them and don't care to hold the door open anymore or anything like that. We think we are just being ourselves, but are really being the most fuckable version of ourselves. Well, that's not true. I know I'm totally full of shit when I try to fuck girls. But anyway, marriage is their end game whereas ours is sex. So they are biologically programmed to be a different person until they have you locked up, either with kids, or with some kind of social convention like marriage. But I can't help but feel my wife was intentionally deceptive.
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Look there is no 100% stereotype that holds true and there are always exceptions but my experience tells me (and take it or throw it away as you will) that up and until you get married many women will give you what they think you want to see to get married and then after marriage they change and expect you to give them what they want to see to continue to give you sex.

I don't say that t disparage women or men but that seems to be case more often than not from my anecdotal experience. Regardless, get yourself and your S.O to some counseling and try and figure this thing out before you cheat because I can almost guarantee that if you do cheat it will do nothing to help and will only add guilt and blame to the situation.
 
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