is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

[Jack Reacheround]

Just let it go and bang bro.

I'm honestly afraid that I might let myself bang, bro. I would feel terrible about it. But at the same time, my wife completely misrepresented her real self when we were dating for 5 years, and then revealed a completely different person once we got married, so I wouldn't feel too bad about it. But I would still feel somewhat bad.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

I'm honestly afraid that I might let myself bang, bro. I would feel terrible about it. But at the same time, my wife completely misrepresented her real self when we were dating for 5 years, and then revealed a completely different person once we got married, so I wouldn't feel too bad about it. But I would still feel somewhat bad.

Nah bro, women are completely honest, faithful and loyal angels that don't owe you anything

@mooner100 @tramendous @AmbivalenceKing

 

[Banchan]

That means you don't have a flappy vag. And dudes dig that!

im pretty sure that sex is actually good for the the vagina and that is something that men say to keep women chaste

 

[EndlessCritic]

he wouldnt say but people were saying that he probably means tying girls up and filling them with uppercuts.

no no no, I like to be tied up and filled with uppercuts.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Nah bro, women are completely honest, faithful and loyal angels that don't owe you anything

@mooner100 @tramendous @AmbivalenceKing

The sarcasm did not escape me. I thought 5 years had been long enough that she couldn't hide who she really was. And finishing that 5 years with a week in Vegas where she did a strip tease, fucked my brains out, and let me fuck her in the ass, I figured I was ready. Apparently not. As soon as we married, it was like a switch flipped and she turned into every other woman who is married. Honestly, the disparity between who women pretend to be when single or dating, and who they really are is nothing short of amazing.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

The sarcasm did not escape me. I thought 5 years had been long enough that she couldn't hide who she really was. And finishing that 5 years with a week in Vegas where she did a strip tease, fucked my brains out, and let me fuck her in the ass, I figured I was ready. Apparently not. As soon as we married, it was like a switch flipped and she turned into every other woman who is married. Honestly, the disparity between who women pretend to be when single or dating, and who they really are is nothing short of amazing.

This is not new information for people like me,

But all these white knights on here should listen to what you have to say.

Unfortunately, many will just blow it off with "she wasn't the right one" or "they aren't all like that"

in order to drown their own belief deep down that they know that women are conniving cunts so they can continue believing in santa Claus to get through their daily lives

 

[the muntjac]

yes

think about it. if the married person isnt out there trawling for sex then how do they even have the time and opportunity to wind up in an affair? its baseline always the married person bored or annoyed of being married wanting other sex partners. youre ridiculous if you think single people are gathering around your sloppy second spouse hoping to catch remnants your bodily fluids.

What's weird is that you're acting as though I took a stance saying it's never possible that married people want to fuck other people. From the beginning, I made a point that I think it's wrong to sleep with a married person and I gave my reasons why because I was answering your thread title of "Is it wrong to sleep with a married person?" Nowhere did I make a point of how inconceivable an idea is of a married person fooling around behind their spouse. You're the one who has twisted it into this. It seems you're trying to run off the logic of, "Well, the married person wants to cheat, so my hands are clean on this," but if you were paying attention, you would have already grasped my point that you're aiding in the misery of the married person's spouse, and I wouldn't want that on my hands because I wouldn't want that to happen to me. My point was clear, and if you didn't understand it, then that's on you.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

This is not new information for people like me,

But all these white knights on here should listen to what you have to say.

Unfortunately, many will just blow it off with "she wasn't the right one" or "they aren't all like that"

in order to drown their own belief deep down that they know that women are conniving cunts so they can continue believing in santa Claus to get through their daily lives

It's true.

But the thing is, they don't even know they're doing it. It's kind of how we are different people when we want to fuck them, vs after we fuck them and don't care to hold the door open anymore or anything like that. We think we are just being ourselves, but are really being the most fuckable version of ourselves. Well, that's not true. I know I'm totally full of shit when I try to fuck girls. But anyway, marriage is their end game whereas ours is sex. So they are biologically programmed to be a different person until they have you locked up, either with kids, or with some kind of social convention like marriage. But I can't help but feel my wife was intentionally deceptive.

 

[CrazyN8]

lol, whats funny is this is way closer than my is CNN bias poll on the WR.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

lol, whats funny is this is way closer than my is CNN bias poll on the WR.

That's because most WR posters are white supremacists with an incentive to discredit mainstream news outlets like CNN. I haven't seen the poll. But I don't have to to know that most people in the WR will say CNN is biased.

 

[Banchan]

no no no, I like to be tied up and filled with uppercuts.

seriously? really though the reason ive been so curious is i kind of want to know about all these weird fetishes so i can recognize signs so im not taken by surprise if i ever come across one.

 

[Mike]

ive read a lot of bad marriage threads here but @EndlessCritic 's thread was the worst. imagine you get married and then find out your husband is into something you think is vile and doesnt turn you on at all (like uppercuts) and then youre stuck with almost no sex and when you do have it it sucks for the rest of your life?

i guess wouldnt you think it would totally suck for you to wait to have sex only to end up like that? its kind of depressing because its very real prediction for a lot of people who think that not having sex with anyone is some upstanding thing when the reward could be the worst thing to ever happen to you. you have almost no sex then you get married and have even less sex.

Imo that's usually more on women. They tend to be the ones to misrepresent what they like sexually and how often they want to have sex. With few exceptions, men want sex on a regular basis all the time unless they're ill or exhausted.

 

[Banchan]

Imo that's usually more on women. They tend to be the ones to misrepresent what they like sexually and how often they want to have sex. With few exceptions, men want sex on a regular basis all the time unless they're ill or exhausted.

ya but you know in the @EndlessCritic thread it sounds like he kept that from her until he knew she was too invested to leave him for it. i mean im sure people with really weird fetishes do hide it from their spouse and it generally comes out because they get busted looking at it on the computer or slowly start asking for it.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

ya but you know in the @EndlessCritic thread it sounds like he kept that from her until he knew she was too invested to leave him for it. i mean im sure people with really weird fetishes do hide it from their spouse and it generally comes out because they get busted looking at it on the computer or slowly start asking for it.

She should have just done it for him and shut her mouth unless it was something like piss/shit or involving another person

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Imo that's usually more on women. They tend to be the ones to misrepresent what they like sexually and how often they want to have sex. With few exceptions, men want sex on a regular basis all the time unless they're ill or exhausted.

Yes

After a date - sex

After a long day - sex

After a bad day - sex

If I'm stressed out - sex

My uncle died and I'm freaking out - sex

I accomplished something - sex

I mowed the grass - sex

It makes everything better

And women know this but still withhold sex as a control device

 

[GearSolidMetal]

Like the Flat-Earther thread, this topic doesn't deserve this much discussion.

Those that disagree that having sex with married people is wrong, says far more about their moral compass (or lack thereof) and their respect for marriage.

 

[loyalyolayal]

Children of broken marriages/orphans/ raised by a stripper are being exposed itt.

 

[LATEXXX COMMANDO]

Some filth in here.

Filthy!

 

[TheNinja]

seriously? really though the reason ive been so curious is i kind of want to know about all these weird fetishes so i can recognize signs so im not taken by surprise if i ever come across one.

How old are you btw? You seem fairly young and trying to learn about life and men.

 

[Mike]

ya but you know in the @EndlessCritic thread it sounds like he kept that from her until he knew she was too invested to leave him for it. i mean im sure people with really weird fetishes do hide it from their spouse and it generally comes out because they get busted looking at it on the computer or slowly start asking for it.

Usually this stuff comes out before marriage. Honestly it's a conversation that should come up early in the relationship. For me, I had that conversation early with my ex-wife and she just decided not to tell me. A lot of women ( and maybe a lot of men too, I wouldn't know I suppose) try to keep this stuff a secret.

In my experience guys are more open about it unless it's S&M kind of stuff. Might as well find out early on though imo, sexual compatibility is essential in a relationship.

Yes

After a date - sex

After a long day - sex

After a bad day - sex

If I'm stressed out - sex

My uncle died and I'm freaking out - sex

I accomplished something - sex

I mowed the grass - sex

It makes everything better

And women know this but still withhold sex as a control device

Pretty much. I remember when I broke my leg when I got home from the hospital I wanted to get laid. She was like but you're hurt. Hell yes I'm hurt that's why I want sex!