is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

[mooner100]

I'm honestly afraid that I might let myself bang, bro. I would feel terrible about it. But at the same time, my wife completely misrepresented her real self when we were dating for 5 years, and then revealed a completely different person once we got married, so I wouldn't feel too bad about it. But I would still feel somewhat bad.

Why would you feel bad about it. Just bang if you are going to bang. Don't bang if you want to work it out.

Don't be those weirdo fucks that can't make up their fucking minds and cry about it.

 

[freaky]

You're not wrong, they are. No strings attached = no wrong.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Why would you feel bad about it. Just bang if you are going to bang. Don't bang if you want to work it out.

Don't be those weirdo fucks that can't make up their fucking minds and cry about it.

I'm not crying about it. I'm just saying I think about banging, bro, and it scares me because I could lose half my shit.

 

[mooner100]

I'm not crying about it. I'm just saying I think about banging, bro, and it scares me because I could lose half my shit.

As long as you don't get bitter or fall into depression over it.

You seem like a logical guy. You know what to do.

I'd bang prob prost if you are worried about getting caught.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Like the Flat-Earther thread, this topic doesn't deserve this much discussion.

Those that disagree that having sex with married people is wrong, says far more about their moral compass (or lack thereof) and their respect for marriage.

Nobody is faithful, nobody cares.

Why not get some trim when she's going to do it regardless?

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Usually this stuff comes out before marriage. Honestly it's a conversation that should come up early in the relationship. For me, I had that conversation early with my ex-wife and she just decided not to tell me. A lot of women ( and maybe a lot of men too, I wouldn't know I suppose) try to keep this stuff a secret.

In my experience guys are more open about it unless it's S&M kind of stuff. Might as well find out early on though imo, sexual compatibility is essential in a relationship.



Pretty much. I remember when I broke my leg when I got home from the hospital I wanted to get laid. She was like but you're hurt. Hell yes I'm hurt that's why I want sex!

Exactly. They act like circumstances mean anything.

We want sex all the time, act accordingly woman.

It makes me happy.

You making me bust is showing me you care about me.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

Nobody is faithful, nobody cares.

Why not get some trim when she's going to do it regardless?

Once again, this says more about your worldview, that no one is faithful.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Once again, this says more about your worldview, that no one is faithful.

No, it says more about the world we live in.

 

[Mike]

Once again, this says more about your worldview, that no one is faithful.

Gotta say he's not wrong from what I've seen.


The vast majority of relationships I've seen end due to infidelity.

 

[I Am Legion]

Tonight I took clients to a high end steakhouse that has a huge cougar bar scene. Because this thread made me feel all moral and shit I didn't bang any of the wedding ring wearing hotties checking me out. Fucking morals suck ass

 

[Sir Galahad]

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Never will baby

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Tonight I took clients to a high end steakhouse that has a huge cougar bar scene. Because this thread made me feel all moral and shit I didn't bang any of the wedding ring wearing hotties checking me out. Fucking morals suck ass

They're going to bang someone bro, if you don't do it someone else will.

 

[Banchan]

i mean it just started because im confused.

30 pages later i dont think im any less confused.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

No, it says more about the world we live in.

No, just your worldview and morality.

 

[GearSolidMetal]

Gotta say he's not wrong from what I've seen.

The vast majority of relationships I've seen end due to infidelity.

You're probably right, but if infidelity wasn't wrong, then why would anyone end their marriage over it?

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Gotta say he's not wrong from what I've seen.


The vast majority of relationships I've seen end due to infidelity.

Every relationship I've ever seen and every person I've ever known and everyone they've ever known's relationship ended because of infidelity

All different races, all different places, all different careers, all different walks of life.

It'll never change.

Relationships are kind of like ufc win streaks.

It's cool at the moment, but nobody escapes unscathed.

 

[I Am Legion]

They're going to bang someone bro, if you don't do it someone else will.

Truthfully the whiskey made my belly hurt so I wasn't into it....

 

[Banchan]

Children of broken marriages/orphans/ raised by a stripper are being exposed itt.

my parents have a really good marriage. they taught me to be all moral which is how ive been most all my life. last year has been really confusing and scary for me. things that i once believed in no longer seem to be true.

How old are you btw? You seem fairly young and trying to learn about life and men.

ive been trying not to too self identify here because i do talk very candidly about my life but i definately dont know it all. about sex men and women maybe too little. ive been very niave and people do take advantage of me.

 

[MikeMcMann]

No, I meant what was the beheading story all about?



Ah, I was wondering when this word is gonna show up. Whenever someone starts talking about rights, I know I am most probably dealing with someone who cherry picks and wants all the rights but none of the obligations that follow it.

Of course it is not the responsibility of a single person. It is the responsibility of society as a whole, the one which is neglected because people are focused exclusively on having their way without even considering possible consequences. Still, judging from what you have written so far, you've got potential to become a fully moral person. I would say you are drawing near it.

Sorry but society has no responsibility to make sure another person honours their oath whether it be to their S.O, Spouse, church or a chastity vow they made with friends.

If that vow is to be upheld it is up to the person who made the vow. Not someone else who made no such vow.

And I am comfortable with my moral position and would never want the approval of someone like you on moral state anymore than I would the Taliban. You both can keep your moral code to yourself.