is it "wrong" to sleep with a married person?

[lesnarsneedle]

I said this in an earlier post, but maybe morality is like a bell curve. most fall within the range of serving self. those on the left serve "evil," those on the right serve "good." yes, it may seem like everyone is selfish, especially when everyone around you is, but there are decent people here. actively choose to be kind to each other, no matter what others are doing. you'll slowly move up the curve.

No graph can depict human nature to satisfy ones self before you drop dead in lieu of making someone else happy who will end up doing precisely that to you - saying fuck you I'm gonna make me happy

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Yeah, but those are retards. Doesn't mean you have to damage yourself not banging. Sounds like you have some expectations or something.

If you really believe what you are saying, you shouldn't have any problems just letting them be who they are. Shouldn't affect you.

You're still not getting it.

I do bang.

I use whores for what they were intended.

I'm not mad about it.

I'm not saying anything against them, as I know their slutty ways better than they do themselves

 

[MysticNinjaJay]

Yes. And anyone who says differently is a scumbag. Get someone of your own.

 

[mooner100]

I'm not bitter about anything moron, I'm the one who tells a bitch to drop em or get out of my truck.

I accept things the way they are.

You and others are the ones in complete denial.

You act like women owe you something. That's my only gripe with you bro.

I don't give two shits about women. I really couldn't care less. That's the difference between you and me.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

Yes. And anyone who says differently is a scumbag. Get someone of your own.

Precisely.

Anyone who doesn't understand that no woman is faithful is a retard poor soul who still views women like they did in highschool.

I pity them when they catch their wife getting dug out by their best friend.

 

[Banchan]

But that yes also includes the expectations of people changing. As long as fundamental is there, it'll work out.

Again, all this is pointless until you feel confident enough to make a choice. It boils down to that point. It's not romantic, it's a commitment. It's about loving that person enough to make that choice.

It's foolish to think that level can be easily achieved or frequent.

im not so sure anyone can predict how their marriage turns out even if they are commited people working at it. some times whats left of the marriage is just a shell for components that broke apart a long time ago. the only thing they agree to uphold that shell to maintain the image that the components are still working.

 

[lesnarsneedle]

You act like women owe you something. That's my only gripe with you bro.

I don't give two shits about women. I really couldn't care less. That's the difference between you and me.

You still aren't getting it.

I don't act like women owe me shit

If you don't care then there is no difference between us.

You sound like a cuck trying to say that I feel like women owe me something or that I'm upset with them

I use women for what they are - a pink hole with arms and legs.

 

[mooner100]

You still aren't getting it.

I don't act like women owe me shit

If you don't care then there is no difference between us.

You sound like a cuck trying to say that I feel like women owe me something or that I'm upset with them

I use women for what they are - a pink hole with arms and legs.

Nah, I think we are pretty much the same. The only difference being you seem very angry about it and I'm using it to my advantage.

 

[mooner100]

You still aren't getting it.

I don't act like women owe me shit

If you don't care then there is no difference between us.

You sound like a cuck trying to say that I feel like women owe me something or that I'm upset with them

I use women for what they are - a pink hole with arms and legs.

You have this weird hatred for them. That in a way is caring. I am indifferent. I literally just smash and bounce. That's the difference.

For your sake, just stop caring man.

 

[mooner100]

Precisely.

Anyone who doesn't understand that no woman is faithful is a retard poor soul who still views women like they did in highschool.

I pity them when they catch their wife getting dug out by their best friend.

This just proves how much you actually care about all this shit. Let it go man.

Just bang the pussy without emotions.

 

[Banchan]

Unwilling to take risks, but being depressed about it @Banchan

Bitter as fuck about it @lesnarsneedle even though you say you believe it down to the core women are shit.

I'm on your boat, but you don't see me crying about it or being depressed about it.

im just kind of reflecting over this last year about certain beliefs i held and its true ive been a little angry and depressed about some things.

it wasnt so long ago that i was optimistic like you but when youre constantly surrounded by infidelity and a married man assaults and harasses you your views can change about how much this idea that people are happily married and sexually monogomous may or may not be true.

 

[MysticNinjaJay]

Precisely.

Anyone who doesn't understand that no woman is faithful is a retard poor soul who still views women like they did in highschool.

I pity them when they catch their wife getting dug out by their best friend.

Many women are faithful. The challenge is you don't know who is. They can cheat on you at any time. So at best you have to make a character judgment. If they have a reputation for being a slut or act like it don't date them and even then it can still happen. At best you can treat them well and hope for the best. I know a few guys who have pursued relationships with married women and I just shake my head.
If you are in it just for sex ok that's wrong but you're the one taking the risk. If you are trying to steal her that is stupid. If she cheats on her husband what makes her think she won't cheat on you? Also you are asking for trouble because her husband could be the jealous type and try to beat you up or kill you if he finds out. You're just asking for trouble that you wouldn't have if you were with a woman who is exclusive to you.

 

[mushishi]

No graph can depict human nature to satisfy ones self before you drop dead in lieu of making someone else happy who will end up doing precisely that to you - saying fuck you I'm gonna make me happy

Yeah, that's why most people fall in the middle of the curve. life is easier there. maybe an exponential curve would better represent the morality scale.

Life on the left half is less work, more pleasurable. it's work to stay on and move up right half, as external pressures want to pull you down, but maybe doing "good" for goods sake is more fulfilling.

Me, I want to live my life trying to be kind to others. some abuse kindness, but others are thankful, and reciprocate.

Love people, use things.

 

[mooner100]

im not so sure anyone can predict how their marriage turns out even if they are commited people working at it. some times whats left of the marriage is just a shell for components that broke apart a long time ago. the only thing they agree to uphold that shell to maintain the image that the components are still working.

im not so sure anyone can predict how their marriage turns out even if they are commited people working at it. some times whats left of the marriage is just a shell for components that broke apart a long time ago. the only thing they agree to uphold that shell to maintain the image that the components are still working.

Lol, so what do you want me to do about it? Or anyone for that matter. If that's how you truly feel then who gives two shit. Why does that make you depressed.

You have to be honest with yourself. Don't play these games.

 

[mushishi]

im just kind of reflecting over this last year about certain beliefs i held and its true ive been a little angry and depressed about some things.

it wasnt so long ago that i was optimistic like you but when youre constantly surrounded by infidelity and a married man assaults and harasses you your views can change about how much this idea that people are happily married and sexually monogomous may or may not be true.

Can you block him? how often do you have to have contact with the guy? he wants to wear you down, in more ways than one. oh my!

 

[mooner100]

im just kind of reflecting over this last year about certain beliefs i held and its true ive been a little angry and depressed about some things.

it wasnt so long ago that i was optimistic like you but when youre constantly surrounded by infidelity and a married man assaults and harasses you your views can change about how much this idea that people are happily married and sexually monogomous may or may not be true.

There's no one more real than me. The hell are you trying to categorize me there for.

You think you are edgy by being real, but you really aren't. Being depressed about it just means you want it bad, but you claim it's not possible. Who's the optimist here?

 

[mooner100]

Can you block him? how often do you have to have contact with the guy? he wants to wear you down, in more ways than one. oh my!

Dude, if she really doesn't like it, she'll do something about it.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

I don't know. I think it's wrong to hit on a married person, knowing they are married. But if it just happens I think the blame lies with the married person more than the other person. The other person made no commitment to anyone else. At the same time, it is still a shitty thing to do. But if I'm being totally honest, I could see myself doing that. Hell, I could see myself having an affair. And I think about it constantly.

 

[mushishi]

I don't know. I think it's wrong to hit on a married person, knowing they are married. But if it just happens I think the blame lies with the married person more than the other person. The other person made no commitment to anyone else. At the same time, it is still a shitty thing to do. But if I'm being totally honest, I could see myself doing that. Hell, I could see myself having an affair. And I think about it constantly.

The morality struggle is real, brother. I've cheated before, and have been cheated on. knowing how it feels, I wont put myself in positions where that will happen again.

 

[tramendous]

There are certain things that are universal and will never change.

I have been around the holiest of the Holy church going people who had been married for 20 years and the woman cheated.

It's in their nature.

You're in denial.

You'll learn one day though.

Lol some parts of the wotld fornication and adultery gets people shunned and disowned or worse. Not like the west where parents encourage their teenage daughters to have safe sex and whore out on alcohol during parties. That shit is outta the question in other parts of the world.