can you ever be 100 percent sure about another person? people are always changing. you cant predict change only that you will know it will happen. yourself included. you will change too. you maybe 100 percent sure today but even you cant know what will change tomorrow and to how you honor vows you made before you your spouse and the world you live has changed. its just romantic fantasy to say you know.All that needs to be understood is when a man gives you his word, that's final.
What is marriage? It's a vow to make sure you two are in this together in this shit world. There will be disagreements, but you've agreed to communicate it through tough times.
This is why I never give my word unless I'm 100 percent sure. That's why 99 percent I don't say anything hah.
Maybe you just need to keep your eyes open for real guys. Of course, that's a necessary gamble you have to risk.
Hence, all this is tiring and doesn't amount to much, and it shouldn't for the most part. Just smash and leave is the way to go until you've run into the one.