I lost my wife yesterday.

[zapataxiv]

Let's hope so, bro. Let's hope so. I'm so sorry to hear about your friend.

So sorry for you man! No one deserves shit like that, but you are one of the best guys on here. It breaks my heart. We all wish you didnt have to bear this pain. I lost my father and older brother and the pain is something that hasnt gone away for me. But having people in my corner always seemed to help me keep going. I hope you know that despite the fact we all pretend to be giant sociopaths with segall level fighting abilities. We are real peeps behind these screens and we all would help if we could

 

[gentlemanjack]

My condolences man, I can’t imagine the pain.

I always thought of you as the “my wife” guy, not in a bad way, but an uplifting way. Too many people online seem to disparage their wives and that’s depressing, but not you. You were like a bit of sunshine in a dreary day.

It always showed in your posts how much she meant to you and the bond y’all had. Its pretty rare these days.

 

[Oeshon]

Wow, I'm so sorry and shocked to hear this. It sounds like she was a wonderful person and such a positive influence on your life

Stay strong as I'm sure you are going through hell right now.

 

[fungi]

My condolences, Urg!
I'm sorry for your loss.
I know nothing I say will ease the pain, but I wish her soul rests in piece.

 

[RollSonnenRoll]

I’m going to reiterate what so many others have said. The way you spoke of your wife, your love for each other and your marriage truly brought a smile to my face. I can have a nihilistic approach to life sometimes especially concerning relationships but yours always stood out to me as one to look at and make me believe in again. I’m heartbroken for you and I send you my most sincere condolences.

 

[Confucamus]

That's terrible, brother. Nothing can prepare you for that sucker punch. Do your best to stay strong. I'm pulling for you.

 

[jrleclerc88]

Fuck dude sorry man

 

[Goodfella86]

That's awful, Sherbrother. This ruined my day. I can't imagine how your day is going. I have read posts of yours that expressed your love for your wife, so it was evident that you cared a lot for her. I hope you're as well as you can be.

 

[Nihongi]

I remember a number of your post talking about your wife, she seemed like an amazing woman. Truly sorry for your loss brother.

 

[fingercuffs]

Thank you so much, dear. Just knowing you mean that means the world to me. And I'll definitely keep that in mind. I have a bit of good news though. My son, Nigel just called me & told me that he's going to take some time off from his jobs in Nashville & come see some time in the next couple of weeks. It will be the first time that I've seen him since I left Buffalo. So, there's that to look forward to now.

Good news indeed. Nothing is going to take your mind of what's just happened, sweetface. Seeing him will be the best most needed hug.

I'm thinking of you always. Loads of love x

 

[jeff corwin3000]

I’m so sorry fellow Sherbro. I love my wife more than I could ever put into words and I can’t even begin to imagine what it would feel like to lose her. I know nothing we say here will make the pain go away, but please feel free to reach out anytime if you need to talk or need anything at all. We love you man, the Sherdog army is always with you.

 

[TardStrong]

Damn man this is awful. My heart goes out to you. I. Cant even imagine losing my wife. You need your friends and family more than ever right now. I hope everyone who reads your post realizes how precious life. Hang in there and keep going. Just absolutely tough

 

[SaigeVanZant]

Fuck bro, that's shitty. Wish you all the best.

 

[TardStrong]

How many kids do you have? Saw your post about Nigel. That is good he is coming

 

[Zebra Cheeks]

@sweetviolenturg - Sorry that you’re going through this, and I’m sorry for your loss. I normally give people advice of offer coping suggestions when they are dealing with something difficult. But i can’t even comprehend what it must be like to lose your wife. I wish you all the best, and if you need anything sherdog, or personal, you can contact me at any time. Best wishes.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

Jesus, man. I don’t know what to say. I’m sorry.

 

[sweetviolenturg]

How many kids do you have? Saw your post about Nigel. That is good he is coming

I've got three. Two daughters, a stepdaughter & my son, Nigel. All of whom loved Jana. Hell, even my ex-wife thought the world of her.

 

[DrTrouble]

The fuck? So sorry to hear Sherbro. I enjoy reading your posts. No one on here talks more glowingly about their spouse than you.

Even though I didn't know her, was praying for her when she came down with covid.

All your fellow Sherbros grieve with you.

 

[elreece]

God dam man that is FUCKED.

Not a a lot anyone can say that will help right now bro, its going to be rough but your a solid guy just try to keep things together.

As one of the legit nice guys on this site, this is dead set fucked reach out if you need anything Im sure everyone would pitch in to help.

 

[KeepingItReal]

I'm sorry for your loss. She looks too young to pass. I saw some of your posts about how happy you are to be with her, may you always keep those sweet memories.