Dis right hurr. If it really was that easy, everybody would be cool and confident as hell and fucking like bunnies all the time. If you ever felt able to just turn the switch and be confident, you didn't just turned the switch, but you had a whole lot of analyzing and work go into it first. You might just not be aware of it, as that epiphany stood out way more than all that lead up to it.
Well you just have to force yourself into it. I'm a quiet guy and introvert but still go on plenty on dates and im not scared to show my interest in women, I'm no a Don Juan yet like TS but im getting there :icon_chee.