Relationships How to deal with woman's 'reasoning'

[Your Account]

Something seems to be off with the logic of a woman, usually.
They tend to be not rational, trying to make a fight for practically nothing, and so on and so on.
I know thats not just a womans trait per se , but there are stories I read online, I hear from my friends, and I have some from my experience too , so there are some patterns here and there.
So how to respond as a husband, boyfriend , when you recognize those situations ?
Is the only way just to remain silent, stop providing arguments, and just say yes ma'am ?
Anything else should usually trigger woman to run away, get angry, or whatever that doesnt make sense ?
To keep the peace, man has to be capable to ignore those moments discretly and just wait for the moment to go away, and lady come to the 'normal' setting ?
It looks like its usually the most common way to keep the marrriage and relationship ,you cant just throw the arguments and go into discussion with your lady ?

 

[Big Burly]

Just nod your head, say she's right, and go about your business.

Trying to make sense of them is fruitless.

I've been "happily" marries for 30 years.

Their hormones are a horrible thing for a man to deal with.

 

[Jack Reacheround]

I usually just talk with her and figure it out. Getting drunk and putting your fist through a wall is for tiny dick bitches.

 

[KBE6EKCTAH_CCP]

Something seems to be off with the logic of a woman, usually.
They tend to be not rational, trying to make a fight for practically nothing, and so on and so on.
I know thats not just a womans trait per se , but there are stories I read online, I hear from my friends, and I have some from my experience too , so there are some patterns here and there.
So how to respond as a husband, boyfriend , when you recognize those situations ?
Is the only way just to remain silent, stop providing arguments, and just say yes ma'am ?
Anything else should usually trigger woman to run away, get angry, or whatever that doesnt make sense ?
To keep the peace, man has to be capable to ignore those moments discretly and just wait for the moment to go away, and lady come to the 'normal' setting ?
It looks like its usually the most common way to keep the marrriage and relationship ,you cant just throw the arguments and go into discussion with your lady ?

Nah, you need to marry the ones who won't pop pills and fuck the barman just because you forgot their favorite song. Keep away from the nasty ones.

 

[Wrath of Foamy]

I fell asleep once, woke up and my missus was still talking at me...

 

[Batjester]

Don't. Problem solved.

 

[Tone C]

I just ask has she got her period again.

 

[Aegon Spengler]

Kind of just need to let her vent sometimes

 

[shunyata]

I just ask has she got her period again.

NO!

IT'S COMING NEXT WEEK!

(well shit, that explains a few things)

 

[chill doggie]

Reasoning is offensive.

 

[Tone C]

NO!

IT'S COMING NEXT WEEK!

(well shit, that explains a few things)

I get the week before she's grumpy, the week she's on she's grumpy, the week after she's recovering and is grumpy. The fourth week she's lovely and I have no idea what I've done....

 

[franquito]

I've noticed they rarely try to rank the best movies of the 80's OR the 90's too
Just one more reason limiting interactions to other dudes on Gheyberry is advised

 

[shunyata]

Reasoning is offensive.

For real, one time my wife had an incident where she yelled at a coworker who DESERVED to be yelled at (left a patient laying in their own shit for hours and threw a temper tantrum in the hallway when asked to clean it before shift change), and she was so pissed she asked me to help her write the email to her boss and HR because the coworker went nuclear to them.

She says she's too pissed to write it without insulting the coworker who was neglecting a patient and refusing to do her own damn work, so I help her write an emotionless fact based email that culminates in an apology for losing her cool while focusing on outlining the facts of the very serious neglect issue.

Female supervisor writes her back that her email was problematic by virtue of being too masculine and cold. It didn't consider peoples feelings.

 

[supermurph]

The fight for nothing usually means she's pissed off about something unrelated, but it's your job to be a mind reader and figure out how you fucked up this time. Or not care. The older I get the more I take the not care option.

 

[shunyata]

The fight for nothing usually means she's pissed off about something unrelated, but it's your job to be a mind reader and figure out how you fucked up this time. Or not care. The older I get the more I take the not care option.

^

My strategy is that it's time to get rolling on a yard work project.

In 1-3 days this too will pass and she'll be horny and semi reasonable all over again.

Such are the tides and the phases of the moon.

 

[MDoza]

I’ve had women get mad at me because they had a dream that I cheated on them.

There is no “reasoning”.

 

[Jesus X]

 

[Don Quixote]

I usually just try to mirror their behavior and give it back to them. Seems to work for me.

 

[Elvis.]

Womens reasoning

Ok,babe this makes no sense
Economiclly
Rationally
Scientifically
Religiously
Physically
Mathematically
Spiritually
Sensibly
Emotionally
So it’s probably not our best course of action

Her “yeah,but can’t we just try it”



It’s like my old man told me when I was young
You can be right ,or you can be happy

The choice is yours

 

[666]

You just need to gaslight them. Hiding things works well. Like hide the broom and when she says 'I PUT IT RIGHT HERE!' just say 'I never touched the broom, you must have put it somewhere else.' Then when she's searching for the broom you put it back. Once she finds it after searching every crevice of the house and finds it in the original place and asks you about it you just say you've been sitting in one place on the couch the whole time and don't know how she missed it originally.

Things like this will have her questioning her sanity and thoughts and she will eventually think you are the one who is always right.