Guy advice- Is this girl just stringing me along?

[fingercuffs]

At risk of modest hijacking.. no shit? I thought he was scheduled to do one years ago, is this really going to happen now? I mean afterall, a maaaaannnnn's gotta do, what a man's gotta DO...

<3 !!

Yep, in the summer they start filming, really hope Fillion's in it again.

 

[Henry Huggins]

find a new girl and when this one finally wants to bang, do it. if not, you have a new girl

 

[Long Dark Blues]

Is it just me, or does every 20-something shithead on Sherdog make "close to 100k"?

 

[Henry Huggins]

Is it just me, or does every 20-something shithead on Sherdog make "close to 100k"?

actually i make a little over 100k, bench teh 275, and think arianny is ugly because I do better. suck it.

 

[PalharesIsHulk**]

actually i make a little over 100k, bench teh 275, and think arianny is ugly because I do better. suck it.

And according to many stories a lot of Sherdoggers have considerable knockout power.

 

[PalharesIsHulk**]

She's pretty cute TS, I think you should be patient and go for it.

 

[Mooner]

From my personal experience, you are just wasting time. Start dating 3~4 more girls at the same time since this does not seem like a serious relationship. Never put the vag in the pedestal.

 

[minute bull]

Well, let me ask you this. Has she posted you up yet? If she has not posted you up yet, my guess is you have already left sex on the table a few times. You need to keep going until she stops you. Don't get me wrong. STOP when she stops you. And don't be a whiny little bitch about it she does. But it's kinda like MMA rules. You keep going till you are told to stop by the ref.

Girls TALK about sex. That's what they do. Guys are supposed to initiate sex. It sounds to me like you are waiting for some kind of tacit agreement that before a romantic interlude starts, it will end in sex. Worst idea ever. Nothing makes a girl less turned on. It is the UNCERTAINTY and ANTICIPATION that gets them excited.

Also, when you are dealing with a woman that is inexperienced (this one is) a lot of guys make the mistake of pulling the trigger a little early and moving to insert the peen before the chick is good and turned on. You can get away with this with experienced women, because they understand that after a couple dozen thrusts, they will be into it. Not so with Newbies. They need to be sufficiently turned on physically to override all the mental games they are playing with themselves. Twiddle that twat until you can ring out her underwear. THEN go in for the kill.

Cooks is a raper.

 

[Spoken]

maybe you should ask her how she wants to navigate the sex thing, and stop making assumptions that if she doesn't want to fuck you after a week, she's pulling you along.

 

[weed]

it's a trap

 

[philth]

pft, I make over 5mil a year and I own a mansion and a yacht.
I've also knocked out a few of my servants for what I consider insubordination (showing up late, slow service, etc...).

 

[Bolshevik***]

Been dating this girl for 3 weeks. She's fun, really good looking. But since then, no sex. Make out, feel her up, never got any further. She throws out hints she wants to have sex all the time. Last week she even said specifically we would have sex soon while we were fooling around at her apt

Anyway she asked me to be her bf today. I was like ok.. expecting to finally get some when we were in a relationship.

But NOPE... later today she started asking me about what kind of position I like.. etc. Then mentioned that she wanted to wait a while! Psh, I don't want to be in a committed relationship where I swear myself to celibacy. I could kinda tolerate it while we weren't officially a couple, and I could meet other women. But I'm not a monk and I don't intend to be. I'm not looking for a booty call.. but damn. My ex put out first night. I've never waited this long around for a woman. Feels bad man.

She keeps throwing me hints she wants to do it, but then backs off at the last minute. She just stringing me along? We go on pricy dates too.. I pay most all of the time. I don't want to get used either.

dude. the fact that she talked about it all the time should have been your first warning. 90% if the time, the women who tell you about sex will usually be the biggest teases.

if i had to take a guess (not knowing this young lady and everything) i'd say she's either relatively inexperienced, which is making her hesitant about doing it "too soon", she's had some bad sexual experiences, and/or she's not very good at sex and so she wants you to be committed, that way when the sex isn't any good, you'll stick around any way because you're already so invested.

 

[Cyke_out]

God this. I don't know why you single guys make things so damn hard. I was never like that when I was single.


My first thought was maybe she saving herself for marriage.

Fist pump.

Really, why the mind game? If shit is bothering you, say something! I know this sounds like something you read from a hallmark card, but really open and honest communication is the success for any relationship, no matter if that relationship is 3 weeks old or 3 decades.

 

[Diktaattori]

Start talking about having kids.

Also benching teh 275 could help, bro.

 

[Cyke_out]

Also, any guy thinking virgins are some sort of holy ground are just insecure in their fucking prowess. I understand the point of planting a flag in her undiscovered country, but really, virgins don't know what they fuck they are doing. Give me an experienced women over some naive girl any day.

 

[Bolshevik***]

Also, any guy thinking virgins are some sort of holy ground are just insecure in their fucking prowess. I understand the point of planting a flag in her undiscovered country, but really, virgins don't know what they fuck they are doing. Give me an experienced women over some naive girl any day.

a couple of good things about virgins:

• don't have to worry about std's
• they'll believe whatever you tell them
• you don't have to worry about breaking any bad habits
• you can teach them to do whatever you like

now if you're lucky, you can find an experienced girl who already does everything you like, but that's a hit or miss.

 

[cooks1]

Cooks is a raper.

No.

But but prior to getting married, I was a closer. I did not go around feeling titties and hoping to get laid. I made the effort, the actual attempt. If the answer is No, that's fine. But yeah, I would try to have sex and keep going until the the 'No'. First base, second base, third base, home. That is just making your feelings known and not being a vagina. You don't have to be rough or physical. You are gentle, but deliberate.

 

[Gunny]

I favor the incremental approach. My advise to you is to change your goal. Instead of trying to get her to have sex with you, when you're fooling around make you goal to get her completely naked before you take of a single stitch of your own clothing - not even your shoes. This may take time and patience but if you accomplish it you will have completely turned the tables in your direction and built yourself a devoted nympho in the process.

 

[cooks1]

I favor the incremental approach. My advise to you is to change your goal. Instead of trying to get her to have sex with you, when you're fooling around make you goal to get her completely naked before you take of a single stitch of your own clothing - not even your shoes. This may take time and patience but if you accomplish it you will have completely turned the tables in your direction and built yourself a devoted nympho in the process.

That's an admirable goal, but TS needs to learn to walk before he runs. If you have not even tried to go through the front door, and made an honest, legit attempt to actually insert a penis into something, you probably need try that before attempting other things. He just needs to be a little more decisive. I would bet dollars to doughnuts he has not even tried to take her pants off yet. If you go to take a chicks pants off, and she lets you, that is a pretty clear indication things are headed the right direction. Not 100% obviously, but your odds are pretty fucking good.

 

[GordoBarraBJJ]

Rape her. Best advice I can give.

Then he can probably join TLI

Is it just me, or does every 20-something shithead on Sherdog make "close to 100k"?

First thing that jumped into my mind.

actually i make a little over 100k, bench teh 275, and think arianny is ugly because I do better. suck it.

But do you know how to "touch with teh jab"?

And according to many stories a lot of Sherdoggers have considerable knockout power.

But glass chins - you stare at them hard enough they'll drop.