Guy advice- Is this girl just stringing me along?

[BUTTCHEDDAR]

DUDE HANG IN THERE! It'll be worth the wait! What if she's a virgin 0.0

 

[Rjay]

Congratulations you're not dating a slut who puts out at the first opportunity. Not seeing the problem.

 

[frenz]

You are 14 years old correct?

 

[fingercuffs]

DUDE HANG IN THERE! It'll be worth the wait! What if she's a virgin 0.0

Then it won't be worth the wait.

 

[FeedMeWithTeetH]

Back in my day we had fancy box wine to loosen the mood

 

[Gaijin36]

Congratulations you're not dating a slut who puts out at the first opportunity. Not seeing the problem.

This. Imagine, you may have actually met a nice girl...they do still exist.

 

[HuntersCreed]

There are tons of women in this world. Cut her loose. Games are not worth playing.

 

[Juventud]

Just casually bring it up and see what her reasons are for waiting this long.

Are you scared or something?

It's probably a good thing she's waiting. Do you want a whore?
If you don't like the answer you get, and something seems fishy, THEN decide whether you want to stick around.

 

[Cestus]

TS, honest question
You did something to create the right situation, try the "first move", or you're waiting she jump split open legs on your banana?

 

[Cestus]

This. Imagine, you may have actually met a nice girl...they do still exist.

I really appreciate a girl that don't throw some vagina at everybody ask for it
But in this case all the blah blah about teh sex, fav positions and so on is just fucking annoying

Play the holy virgin or play teh sex demon, don't bother with the worse part of both worlds :icon_chee

 

[mrsinister]

YOU rebuff HER next time she wants to get frisky. Tell her you get blue balls when she revs you up and doesn't deliver, that it's really painful, and if she's not going to go all the way you'd rather not do anything physical at all.

Give it two weeks like that. If she still doesn't give it up, drop her like it's hot. She ain't into you.

 

[Iroh]

Propose to her.

 

[gabelh]

Then it won't be worth the wait.

True. Virgins are grossly overrated as it applies to teh sex. More importantly, I just wanted to post and say that is a BOSS av, Cuffs. I've watched the hell out of that sing-a-long blog!

 

[sleepwalk]

Sleepwalk has been around the block, hell I'd sleep with him

Pfft! By he time I had figured out girls, I was looking to marry. If I had this kind of strategy and heart when I had a full head of hair and single digit body fat?

Shheeeeeeeeeeeiit!

 

[Cestus]

True. Virgins are grossly overrated as it applies to teh sex. More importantly, I just wanted to post and say that is a BOSS av, Cuffs. I've watched the hell out of that sing-a-long blog!

well, i prefer white paper over suppa jizzed paper

 

[stile0]

Sounds to me like she likes you and doesn't want to make a mistake.

I think more girls should be like this even though it sucks to be the guy in this situation.

Try and figure out how much you like her. If smashing gives a better reward than being with her, try to smash. Just keep in mind it could push her away and you could potentially lose something good.

 

[fingercuffs]

True. Virgins are grossly overrated as it applies to teh sex. More importantly, I just wanted to post and say that is a BOSS av, Cuffs. I've watched the hell out of that sing-a-long blog!

Yep, me too. And Whedon's doing another one too !

 

[G-Mafia]

Rape her. Best advice I can give.

 

[cooks1]

Been dating this girl for 3 weeks. She's fun, really good looking. But since then, no sex. Make out, feel her up, never got any further. She throws out hints she wants to have sex all the time. Last week she even said specifically we would have sex soon while we were fooling around at her apt

Anyway she asked me to be her bf today. I was like ok.. expecting to finally get some when we were in a relationship.

But NOPE... later today she started asking me about what kind of position I like.. etc. Then mentioned that she wanted to wait a while! Psh, I don't want to be in a committed relationship where I swear myself to celibacy. I could kinda tolerate it while we weren't officially a couple, and I could meet other women. But I'm not a monk and I don't intend to be. I'm not looking for a booty call.. but damn. My ex put out first night. I've never waited this long around for a woman. Feels bad man.

She keeps throwing me hints she wants to do it, but then backs off at the last minute. She just stringing me along? We go on pricy dates too.. I pay most all of the time. I don't want to get used either.

Well, let me ask you this. Has she posted you up yet? If she has not posted you up yet, my guess is you have already left sex on the table a few times. You need to keep going until she stops you. Don't get me wrong. STOP when she stops you. And don't be a whiny little bitch about it she does. But it's kinda like MMA rules. You keep going till you are told to stop by the ref.

Girls TALK about sex. That's what they do. Guys are supposed to initiate sex. It sounds to me like you are waiting for some kind of tacit agreement that before a romantic interlude starts, it will end in sex. Worst idea ever. Nothing makes a girl less turned on. It is the UNCERTAINTY and ANTICIPATION that gets them excited.

Also, when you are dealing with a woman that is inexperienced (this one is) a lot of guys make the mistake of pulling the trigger a little early and moving to insert the peen before the chick is good and turned on. You can get away with this with experienced women, because they understand that after a couple dozen thrusts, they will be into it. Not so with Newbies. They need to be sufficiently turned on physically to override all the mental games they are playing with themselves. Twiddle that twat until you can ring out her underwear. THEN go in for the kill.

 

[gabelh]

Yep, me too. And Whedon's doing another one too !

At risk of modest hijacking.. no shit? I thought he was scheduled to do one years ago, is this really going to happen now? I mean afterall, a maaaaannnnn's gotta do, what a man's gotta DO...