going to bars/clubs alone?

Ogata said:
War machine said that when he worked at a gay club, he could get women super easy because they weren't expecting straight men.

Guess its true after all...
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I always think of gay women looking like butch men (like most gay female fighters).

I think I'll pass.
 
If you really need insider tips on how to work the magic at a bar or club, then watch this video.
Your popularity will soar in no time!

 
Ogata said:
Have you gone to bars and clubs alone? I know going to bar is more acceptable but what type of bars are best to go alone?
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Ogata said:
Have you gone to bars and clubs alone? I know going to bar is more acceptable but what type of bars are best to go alone?
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You could. Sure. But why?

Say, I am in Ibiza/Cancun/Miami/Vegas/London/Prague last night of vaca and friends wont come out (hangover, lame, gay, etc.), I am still going out with them. My advice is, chat up people everywhere when out; pick up babes and make friends with dudes. Then, go get girls.

As for going out solo, act fast, chat up everyone. Don't wait or hesitate hoping for the perfect situation. Just be that dude who talks to everyone. Don't mental masturbate about it; what to say? Just start talking as though you already know her.
 
HelloJapan said:
I've worked in pubs, bars, clubs, lounges, etc for many years. Here's my rule of thumb, if you're a dude going alone...

- Clubs-never. I can't think of a situation where a solo dude gong to a club works out, unless you're looking for a fight with the roided up bouncing staff.
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Was on vaca and my friend was being gay; wouldn't come out so, A> I stay in or B > Be a man &&& GO GET GIRLS.

Needless to say, I went with B > GO GET GIRLS because I am not a :eek::eek::eek:.

Terrible advice brah.

Bouncers don't try to fight random people unless you are being a :eek::eek::eek:/rapey.

- Pubs and bars. These are good options, especially pubs, loads of lonely people frequent pubs. The key to a bar though is-be gone by 11:00pm on a Friday or Saturday, you'll stand out, in a bad way after 11. If you still want to do the drink thing, head to a pub.

- Lounges. Only if its a super high end one, and you're a rich, traveling, business type dude...then the staff and pro's will love you...for your desperation and cash.

- Gay bar. Guaranteed to get laid. Have a good time, and be sure to "tip" Ace and Gary.
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Sounds like a 1 way ticket for HIV.
 
Satanical Eve said:
Am I the only person here who has gone to clubs alone and ended up making friends with others, seems like I am. Then again when I talk about clubbing I'm talking about the times I went to a decent amount of psytrance events. Those events were wonderful experiences that I'll cherish for the rest of my life
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+ 1

Its not preferable but, if on vaca and people are being gay/:eek::eek::eek:gy, I am going out without them &&& making new friends.

I am buddy's of bouncers at my local stomping ground. Many of them will 1) wing me 2) sort people out if they try to fight me lol

I remember wheeling some young skank at my usual stomping ground. Granted, I don't go from 11pm till 4am. More like 30min round and pound or head home.

Found some small pixxie looking chick in a tank top + army pants. Needless to say, I took her hand, told her it was time to go (drama was ensueing), and took her home. After party was epic. House all to just the two of us. #NOPANTSDANCE!

A lot of dudes aren't doing it right. Back in my day, men were still men. There was none of this PC crap. Women were feminine still. They were also on sandwich duty and got spankings if they were doing it all wrong.
 
Here is Mopar's simple guide to going to a bar alone on a Friday or Saturday night if you aren't comfortable with the situation.

Walk in and drink a couple beers as quick as you can to start your buzz going for the night.

Go over to a pair of girls (usually there's one hot one and one fat one to make the hotter one look better) and tell them you're waiting on your friend to show up but he's running late and you need some friends to talk to in the meantime so you don't seem like the weird creepy guy that's there by himself.

Chat the girls up for a while.

Check your phone and say "Dammit he just flaked on me!".

Get your holla on with the hotter one.

Get numbers, make outs, HJs, BJs, salad tossed, hummers, gum jobs, rim jobs, balls cradled, 3 somes, just the tip, dry humps, 3rd base, docking, buttsecks or whatever it is your heart desires. The night is yours.
 
It's socially unacceptable to go to a club alone. When I was younger I would do that sometimes working away from home. That's not as bad. Looking back, the very few times I picked up women wasn't worth it.

I think going to the local pub down the street is okay. I go to mine a block away by myself once every week or two for one beer and a meal. I'm betting there are still some asshat social snobs who find that unaccepable, but those are the :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:s who can't do anything in life without someone else's approval.
 
I went out to a nightclub by myself that was celebrating their 4 year anniversary. People mistook me for the security, but I had fun (somewhat). Apparently, the guest DJ was Brody Jenner (son of Caitlyn Jenner).Brody and friends.jpg
 
Ogata said:
War machine said that when he worked at a gay club, he could get women super easy because they weren't expecting straight men.

Guess its true after all...
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Glad we have a platform to quote War Machine.
 
Ogata said:
Have you gone to bars and clubs alone? I know going to bar is more acceptable but what type of bars are best to go alone?
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I used to like to go to the trendy hipster speakeasy clubs by myself. Get a fancy cocktail sit
In a corner and read a book. I also liked going to brewery bars by my lonesome as well those places are popping best to just turn up and see where the night takes you
 
zapataxiv said:
I used to like to go to the trendy hipster speakeasy clubs by myself. Get a fancy cocktail sit
In a corner and read a book. I also liked going to brewery bars by my lonesome as well those places are popping best to just turn up and see where the night takes you
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I am 100 percent serious but curious to know if you are a female. I ask because I have seen females read a book in these type of settings.
 
It really depends on your level of self-confidence and why you're there.

If you're there because you like the music and just want to have good time and dance, clubs are easy to do alone. If it's a meat market type place and you're there to get laid, being alone is just as easy as being with others. If you're there because you're lonely and do know what else to do with your time, it's going to show in how you carry yourself.

Bars are just as easy. Slide up to the bar, order a drink and mind your business. Watch the game, read a book, play on your phone. No one there cares what you're doing.

EDIT: I agree with @zapataxiv - if you're willing to see where the night takes you, showing up alone is often better than showing up with people.
 
No, since I have plenty of friends that want to hang out with me.
 
I used to live down the street from a bar so I went there alone way too many times. Other than that I've gone to see bands play alone and I don't go to clubs period.
 
Ogata said:
I am 100 percent serious but curious to know if you are a female. I ask because I have seen females read a book in these type of settings.
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These types of settings? Have you been to these speakeasy clubs? They are set up like Barnes and nobles cafes, and the loud music is usually super slow electronica. Getting a negroni with dry vermouth and reading a mob novel is the perfect thing to do there, if you like good liquor and dislike discussing veganism with a bunch of hipsters.
 
Sure there is nothing wrong if you go to just chill and meet people (any people)
 
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