going to bars/clubs alone?

[MadSquabbles500]

Am I the only person here who has gone to clubs alone and ended up making friends with others, seems like I am. Then again when I talk about clubbing I'm talking about the times I went to a decent amount of psytrance events. Those events were wonderful experiences that I'll cherish for the rest of my life

When I vacation I will go to clubs by myself. I just be the tourist looking to "check things out"

 

[Satanical Eve]

It depends on the kind of place. I know people like you who have been at psytrance events alone and it wasn't a big deal.

For the vast majority of clubs you look like a total creep though.

Yeah definitely which why I only go to regular clubs with friends. It is awkward as fuck going by yourself. As for bars depends on the type of bar you are going to. There is a bar near me that pretty is just a place you go to get drunk and bitch about your own life. So you can go by yourself all the time and just get hammered. Then there is another one that is the complete opposite. More upscale, had a dress code and they discouraged people from arguing and getting into fights. Also they had real top shelf alcohol and wine. Wouldn't go there alone at certain times during the day

 

[bubbleboyjones]

Lonely people need somewhere to go too. Technically the bar portion of the bar is for lone people. I hate those people that try and crowd out the bar. Go find a booth or table, or just go to your home and hang out. Why do you need to be in a room filled with strangers? You are just talking to your group.

Is that how you view a bar? Going to a bar myself to just kill time would be depressing as shit. Unless it's some kind of trip and you're killing some time but if you have no friends and you become one of the loner bar rats that hangs out on a regular basis? Fuck that. Do something more productive. Join a club or take BJJ classes. Shit with the internet these days even if you had no friends you could just setup dates at bars easily.

 

[Ogata]

I've worked in pubs, bars, clubs, lounges, etc for many years. Here's my rule of thumb, if you're a dude going alone...

- Clubs-never. I can't think of a situation where a solo dude gong to a club works out, unless you're looking for a fight with the roided up bouncing staff.

- Pubs and bars. These are good options, especially pubs, loads of lonely people frequent pubs. The key to a bar though is-be gone by 11:00pm on a Friday or Saturday, you'll stand out, in a bad way after 11. If you still want to do the drink thing, head to a pub.

- Lounges. Only if its a super high end one, and you're a rich, traveling, business type dude...then the staff and pro's will love you...for your desperation and cash.

- Gay bar. Guaranteed to get laid. Have a good time, and be sure to "tip" Ace and Gary.

I am not gay, unless you are using War Machines logic that gay clubs are the best place to pick up chicks...

 

[Cajun]

Have you gone to bars and clubs alone? I know going to bar is more acceptable but what type of bars are best to go alone?

Went to pubs a lot when I was single. anywhere with a tv is good tho

 

[MadSquabbles500]

Is that how you view a bar? Going to a bar myself to just kill time would be depressing as shit. Unless it's some kind of trip and you're killing some time but if you have no friends and you become one of the loner bar rats that hangs out on a regular basis? Fuck that. Do something more productive. Join a club or take BJJ classes. Shit with the internet these days even if you had no friends you could just setup dates at bars easily.

Well, I dont mean doing that all the time. Just when one night you find yourself home alone, and no plans, and just want to head out somewhere. Not every night, do you have to make it a night out. Just go somewhere and chill.

If I do martial arts, or some club, I just want to do that activity. I dont need to do everything all the time with those people do I? And why is going to a bar with group more productive? The more productive thing to do is not go drink alcohol. Heck, you can buy beer and drink it at home cheaper.

 

[mb23100]

I used to go alone quite a bit. Almost always to eat then id hang around and watch sportscenter or something. Havent been in a long time though

 

[Bme26]

I've been to clubs a handful of times by myself for various reasons.

One time, a buddy and I went to Las Vegas for a convention I had to attend for work. Our whole setup was pretty legit. But anyways, the first night we were there, we pre drank a good bit in the room and then headed down to lobby of the Encore where we were staying to check out Club XS. My buddy being the stubborn ass he is felt the crowd didn't look that great coming out so he wanted to goto a club in the Luxor out of all places. I was pretty much like hell no, I'm staying here. Not only was it the top club, but it was also in the hotel we were staying in. Needless to say, we both went our own ways for the night.

Fast-forward a few hours later and I end up meeting some girl and a few of her friends. I invite them all back to the room, which was like 4 girls and 1 guy who was talking to one of her friends. As I open the door to the room, I see my buddy in his bed all nice and tucked in....

 

[HelloJapan]

I am not gay

 

[HelloJapan]

What is difference between bar and pub?

Could be different where you're at, but pubs generally are more low key, older crowd, close earlier (12-1), serve food, etc...bars are more varied, live music or DJ's, open later, younger crowd, etc.

 

[Merlotte's]

Go to a bar alone and meet people. You go again and chances are those same people will be there. Even if you show up alone you'll have familiar company.

Clubs a little different. Pre game hard and find a dance partner ASAP. If she asks why you're alone your friends are really drunk and you lost track of them.

 

[Morning Star]

Just sports bars to watch a game.

 

[odog]

I know this might sound nuts, but I used to sometimes go to gay bars alone to meet women. It worked great. They have their guard down compared to how they would be at most clubs.

The first time was just a random fluke, but since I found success it became a thing.

 

[MadSquabbles500]

Could be different where you're at, but pubs generally are more low key, older crowd, close earlier (12-1), serve food, etc...bars are more varied, live music or DJ's, open later, younger crowd, etc.

In NYC the terms bar and pub dont really have any specialized meaning. There are places that call themselves an Irish pub or Tavern or saloon, and they all the same. Well, I guess bars here dont serve food but I know a few that let you order in.

 

[Ogata]

 

[TCE]

I go to bars alone sometimes for a couple drinks. Also, eat out alone occasionally.

Never really go clubbing anymore.

 

[TCE]

I know this might sound nuts, but I used to sometimes go to gay bars alone to meet women. It worked great. They have their guard down compared to how they would be at most clubs.

The first time was just a random fluke, but since I found success it became a thing.

Lol, what are the women like though?

 

[MadSquabbles500]

I've been to clubs a handful of times by myself for various reasons.

One time, a buddy and I went to Las Vegas for a convention I had to attend for work. Our whole setup was pretty legit. But anyways, the first night we were there, we pre drank a good bit in the room and then headed down to lobby of the Encore where we were staying to check out Club XS. My buddy being the stubborn ass he is felt the crowd didn't look that great coming out so he wanted to goto a club in the Luxor out of all places. I was pretty much like hell no, I'm staying here. Not only was it the top club, but it was also in the hotel we were staying in. Needless to say, we both went our own ways for the night.

Fast-forward a few hours later and I end up meeting some girl and a few of her friends. I invite them all back to the room, which was like 4 girls and 1 guy who was talking to one of her friends. As I open the door to the room, I see my buddy in his bed all nice and tucked in....

It is less awkward in tourist traps.

 

[Ogata]

I know this might sound nuts, but I used to sometimes go to gay bars alone to meet women. It worked great. They have their guard down compared to how they would be at most clubs.

The first time was just a random fluke, but since I found success it became a thing.

War machine said that when he worked at a gay club, he could get women super easy because they weren't expecting straight men.

Guess its true after all...

 

[MadSquabbles500]

I am actually alone right now, and its midnight. Where should I go?