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Getting grabbed as a girl in BJJ

We have a couple girls at my school last I've rolled with several times. I think I accidently grabbed one girls chest once when I was trying to take her back. She never said anything. I don't find it at all sexual when I roll with girls although I'm not really attacted to the girls in my school. Even if I was I don't think it would be any different.
 
Whip your ass style best story ever and I agree with goat thats a keeper.
 
The first time I ever rolled with a woman was my third day of BJJ. She was a small, asian woman with a shaved head. Ego in full-bore, I said "I'll take it easy of this chick."

I was gogo-plata'd twice.
 
I roll with girls sometime, they know me and know I would never grab or touch them inappropriately. 2 time world champ, Penny Thomas used to be a regular and man she is a handful. I seen her on you tube before so I know she is awesome. Still to see and feel it in person is crazy.
 
I dont even find it a problem to have my groin in someones face or my face in someones groin or whatever the case may be. My girlfriend and a bunch of people I know bug me about it saying its gay, etc.

Funniest thing ive eve heard related to BJJ was somewhere on here some guy said that him and a friend were watching a ufc fight, and the guy got triangled and tapped.

His one friend says to him "did that guy just tap because he didnt want the dudes cock in his face?"
 
Mat Santos says it isn't gay if you don't make eye contact.
 
Rolling with girls is no different. You grab the same places for sweeps and when your trying to find a grip you grab whatever you can. Girls should be aware of it and accept it. If for some reason she thinks the gentlemen is doing it purposely she should confront him and if it continues, Talk to the instructor and never roll with him again.

I'd also like to meet the man who would get his kicks out of grabbing a tit and brag about it to his friends.
 
To the thread starter, I don't see how you can open the gi, reach into the bra, around the tit and grab the nipple and still be conspicuous about it.

Same goes with being in north-south and reach all the way down and grabbing the snatch.

Either your friend isn't used to a contact sport yet with accidental non-sexual contact and she is exaggerating, or the guys in her class are complete and utter pervs.
 
green_machine said:
To the thread starter, I don't see how you can open the gi, reach into the bra, around the tit and grab the nipple and still be conspicuous about it.

Same goes with being in north-south and reach all the way down and grabbing the snatch.

Either your friend isn't used to a contact sport yet with accidental non-sexual contact and she is exaggerating, or the guys in her class are complete and utter pervs.
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If she was wearing a normal bra rather than a sports bra (which I don't know why she would, but I digress) and they had been rolling a bit the gi may have been loose, if he went for a grip on the lapel and missed I could see it happening. But like I said she'd have to be wearing a regular bra, it would be very difficult to get into a sports bra (my ex used to wear them all the time, I hated them).
 
whipyourasstyle said:
I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"
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I was girls were this cool in America.

Don't be fooled by a girl claiming a guy groped her on purpose just because she wants attention and/or feel wanted. She should know this is bound to happen on accident multiple times throughout the year. You mean to say she's never accidentally grabbed a guys you know what? What would happen if I made a scene out of that?
 
whipyourasstyle said:
This reminds me of a funny story.

I was training once with a chick visiting from brazil. She was very good but still a girl so i was going easy. letting her work sweeps, mount, escapes etc.

Well I was in mount and rolled to guard, swept and started to let her work open guard. I looked down and noticed that her sports bra had shifted and her one titty was exposed.

I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"
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She ended the refutation of the triangle.
 
Tell her to wear crotchless panties, it will speed up the process and she will "Learn more"
 
Is she hot? Pics please.

Haha. Just kidding. I never think of anything sexual when I roll with chicks. I try not to crush them though as even though I'm not that big (about 170) the biggest girl I ever rolled with was probably 125 to 130 pounds.
 
whipyourasstyle said:
This reminds me of a funny story.

I was training once with a chick visiting from brazil. She was very good but still a girl so i was going easy. letting her work sweeps, mount, escapes etc.

Well I was in mount and rolled to guard, swept and started to let her work open guard. I looked down and noticed that her sports bra had shifted and her one titty was exposed.

I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"
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Very cool story bro!
 
I don't know why guys take it easy on girls. Majority of girls take BJJ for self-defense and a guy in the alley isn't going to take it easy on her. If all they are used to is being taken easy on, then if shit hits the fan their going to fold under the pressure.

Sorry for getting off-subject.
 
STFUjiujitsu said:
I don't know why guys take it easy on girls. Majority of girls take BJJ for self-defense and a guy in the alley isn't going to take it easy on her. If all they are used to is being taken easy on, then if shit hits the fan their going to fold under the pressure.

Sorry for getting off-subject.
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Because you don't learn much by being crushed by someone with better technique and 60 pounds of muscle on you.
 
Girls in training with men are a distraction imo. They should have their own female class and in a lot of places they do. I know a lot of times they have way better technique, etc, but ones that are brand new should probably learn together. Sometimes it turns into "oh let me show off for the girl" or "oh let me roll with the girl" and it really doesn't help anyone. As far as grabbing body parts, sometimes it will probably happen, but if it is not accidental and becomes a prob she should speak up to one of the higher ranking dudes there.
 
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