Getting grabbed as a girl in BJJ

[Ring>>Cage]

Sounds like a bullshit thread to me.

 

[Lucky Rutledge**]

Sounds like a bullshit thread to me.

good call douche. thanks for contributing,

 

[Calibur]

This reminds me of a funny story.

I was training once with a chick visiting from brazil. She was very good but still a girl so i was going easy. letting her work sweeps, mount, escapes etc.

Well I was in mount and rolled to guard, swept and started to let her work open guard. I looked down and noticed that her sports bra had shifted and her one titty was exposed.

I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"

That....was....awesome.

It also sounds like the making of a great porn.

 

[whipyourasstyle]

^^^

Her boyfriend (now husband) is a black belt, and to this day does not let me forget that I got beat by a girl.

 

[andrewbc]

troll
or shes seeking attention

 

[nyne]

sorry but she's gotta realize its close contact. stuff like that happens all the time intentional or non intentional. rash guard is all i can recommend really.

 

[cmburns]

I dread the day I have to roll with a hot girl.

 

[Nickynoneck]

try grip fighting with a girl in judo try to get that lepel, can accidentally turn into a titty twister!

 

[mycompy386*]

You're welcome to borrow bro.

What is that avatar from? I just can't understand the context. Due to your avatar change I don't know who you are, were you the one with the cartoon/anime guy avatar before?

 

[fiftysvn]

I've only rolled with a chick twice. The first time was fine. I thought it was going to be awkward but she quickly proved me wrong. I was too busy getting owned to be feeling any awkwardness.

The second time I rolled with a chick who was much much smaller than me. She wasn't very good, so I had to take extra effort to go lighter. What bothered me was that she was wearing a regular girls tank top underneath because she said she had not brought her gym attire in that day. I didn't find her attractive, but everytime a titty dangled in my face it really threw me off. Maybe I just have to get used to rolling with girls more often, but like someone said, girls should all wear rash guards!

And one question . . . when trying to pass guard, where do you guys typically position your hand? I'm talking about the hand that usually goes on the chest, while grabbing both lapels. I found that grabbing higher up on the chest works fine for me . . .

 

[whipyourasstyle]

And one question . . . when trying to pass guard, where do you guys typically position your hand? I'm talking about the hand that usually goes on the chest, while grabbing both lapels. I found that grabbing higher up on the chest works fine for me . . .

Grip up with a chick the same way you would a dude, it's not sexual, it's passing the guard. :icon_neut

 

[Vigiles]

Accidents happen. I laugh when people say they feel uncomfortable with certain situations. Like having your head between your partners legs when passing guard. I feel more awkward being between a GUYS legs than a girls! Seriously, think about it.

Most Gi's are so thick that I usually don't even think about where my hands are positioned, etc. Most of the girls at my gym are better than me, so I'm more concerned with not getting choked out.

If you are having issues in your head when rolling with females, roll with them more, and talk to them about it. Like most people have said in this thread, they'll understand and probably tell you not to worry about it.

As for the TS, its hard to say one way or the other without being there and seeing it. In that case it is 100% the perception of your friend whether it was legit or an accident.

 

[EndoG]

...but like someone said, girls should all wear rash guards!

Riiiight... and hijab too, just so you're not distracted.

 

[Czyivn]

You guys may not be thinking sexy thoughts when you roll with a girl, but that isn't the case for all men apparently. An attractive female that I started dating in jiu jitsu class was complaining that one of the other students would deliberately cop a feel every time he rolled with her. It wasn't accidental either, she says, as he did it multiple times, and then later he myspace stalked her and tried to ask her out. Your intentions may be good, but people who don't have such good intentions can take advantage of a sport where "ooops" contact happens all the time. Plus, some men are just creeps. This girl made me think sexy thoughts too as soon as we stopped rolling, but some people don't know where the line is.

 

[Bartatua]

If you are having issues in your head when rolling with females, roll with them more, and talk to them about it.

Eh, I don't know if either of these are good ideas

 

[fiftysvn]

Riiiight... and hijab too, just so you're not distracted.

Well, as much as I appreciate the female body, I can't help but be distracted when a girl decides it's cool to not wear a sports bra and wear a tank top. I think at the very least, it would be nice for a girl to wear a sports bra to class instead of their normal bras.

 

[Goat Meal]

This reminds me of a funny story.

I was training once with a chick visiting from brazil. She was very good but still a girl so i was going easy. letting her work sweeps, mount, escapes etc.

Well I was in mount and rolled to guard, swept and started to let her work open guard. I looked down and noticed that her sports bra had shifted and her one titty was exposed.

I sort of postured up and disengaged, I let her know and she looked down at her breast, then looked me square in the eye, and with her heavy brazilian accent said "what's the matter you've never seen one before" with that she slapped on a very tight triangle. I was so shocked I almost got choked out. I tapped, then she let go, fixed herself, looked at me and said "I win"

I would have married that bitch.

 

[son_goku]

My teacher once told our class that if he ever caught anyone deliberately trying to cop a feel they would be immediately removed from the class.

About 85% of the time the chicks usually partner up with each other and when we mix it up its not been big deal. There is nothing remotely sexual about it at all.

 

[Altephor]

There are only a few girls in my class (and they are all smoking hot). Never rolled with one though I would certainly like to, in order to get to know them a little better. But as for the actual rolling, that's all it is is rolling, you have to expect to get touched.

 

[JDV5811]

i agree i try to go a lil easier with the girls in class. i watch where i put my hands, but they are usually like its cool dont worry about it if i touch something and im like im sorry. they kinda expect it.