hey guys. Need some feedback. I decided to order some focus mitts so I could get some practice in at home. Just ordered the faritex fmv9 contoured mitts. They came and are red and white and the bag had them labeled which are left and right. I can barely squeeze my hand in them. Its extremely tight and I have a average to small hand. I know the leather will stretch; but should it be this tight? Is there really a left and a right? if so how do you tell. I don't see the difference. The mitts at the gym seem easy to get my hands into even with wraps on. Anyone have experience with these mitts?