Ex gf dumped me because i went clubbing after she broke up with me

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  1. Richmma80 Purple Belt

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    my ex dumped me a few days ago, basically saying I'm not good enough for her. I graduated and received my business administration degree a few years ago and I have not been able to find a job in the field. I'm making just a bit above minimum wage, but I've been actively trying to find a better job. She graduated and immediately found a job, but it was ONLY because her parents juiced her in. She could have gotten that job right after high school. She's very attractive and smart, but sometimes has an attitude problem. She's been progressively talking down on me just because I haven't been able to find a decent job.

    After a long talk last Saturday morning, she dumped me.* I was extremely depressed, and after looking around the internet, I found that the most common solution is to go out and find another girlfriend. So, that night on the day she dumped me, I went clubbing. One of her friends was there, told her about it, and the next morning, called me and called me all sorts of names, how I'm a piece of shit and will be a nobody for the rest of my life. I'm not going to lie, I still have a LOT of feelings for her. We've been together for awhile and I loved her, never cheated or lied to her in any way. I did everything I could to make her happy.

    Yesterday, I found out that she was calling up all my friends and telling them to stop hanging out with me anymore because I'll just only drop them down to my level. She went over the line. I hope I can bounce back after this and find me a girl with a good personality.
     
  2. Da Speeit MES QUE UN CLUB Platinum Member

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    She sounds broken.

    Good luck, Rich.
     
  3. Merlotte's Gold Belt

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    Beat the living shit out of her.
     
  4. Thread Im Da Best Mayne

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    Ha ha. Merry Christmas
     
  5. Fenderson Purple Belt

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    You did the right thing, forget her. And if your friends listen to her your better off without them too.
     
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    Well........ Did you at least get an ipad out of this?
     
  7. Big Sissy Banned Banned

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    Take a crap in a box, wrap it, put a bow on it, and send it to her job
     
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    How can she dumb you after she broke up with you?

    You sound like an idot like the guy from the movie TED who wont grow up so she left you
     
  9. gotBooched Red Belt

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    This bitch sounds like a real piece of work
     
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    By the way statistics show that Christmas time is when the most amount of breakups happen in USA
     
  11. Joe Rogaine Black Belt

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    I was in a similar situation a few months back although my girlfriend was just as unsuccessful as me. I felt crummy for about a month and a half. The cure is alcohol and pussy.
     
  12. IIIIIIII Titanium Belt

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    it sounds like she's still as emotionally invested in this relationship as you are.

    usually when girls are no longer interested in you, they won't go out of their way to tell you how much of a, "loser" you are. they simply forget about you and move on to another dude.
     
  13. ralphc1 Titanium Belt Platinum Member

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    Were the two of you on a "break"?
     
  14. CreativeTomato Tomato Belt

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    This x100
     
  15. Tyrannosaurus rex GrizzlyTitan

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    She sounds like a bitch. Besides, how can she be mad at you? She broke up, you can now see anyone you want.

    Also, I hope your friends told her to shut up and that she is a stupid, irrational bitch for doing that.
     
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    This girl sounds like a real keeper. Do whatever you possibly can to win back this cold, manipulative, controlling, vindictive, money grubbing bitch before someone else scoops her up.
     
  17. Simian Raticus Sicker than your average.

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    She sounds like an utter demon. If you get back with her you deserve the baldness and ball cancer that eventuates.
     
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    So AFTER she dumps YOU, she goes typically crazy bitch when u tried to move on with your life?

    Sounds like bullshit to me.

    Listen guy I will give you some solid advice about women; fuck them, use them, but never get emotionally attached. They have no other purpose in life other than to serve your needs or ruin your life.

    Oh, and stop being a pussy.
     
  19. ShinkanPo Titanium Belt

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    The Economy brings the worst out from people
     
  20. Ablis89 Purple Belt

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    Bang her dad. That'll show her.
     

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