Ex gf dumped me because i went clubbing after she broke up with me

Sounds like she always wore the pants and as a result has no respect for you. Man up and don't make the same mistake in the future.
 
Richmma80 said:
my ex dumped me a few days ago, basically saying I'm not good enough for her. I graduated and received my business administration degree a few years ago and I have not been able to find a job in the field. I'm making just a bit above minimum wage, but I've been actively trying to find a better job. She graduated and immediately found a job, but it was ONLY because her parents juiced her in. She could have gotten that job right after high school. She's very attractive and smart, but sometimes has an attitude problem. She's been progressively talking down on me just because I haven't been able to find a decent job.

After a long talk last Saturday morning, she dumped me.* I was extremely depressed, and after looking around the internet, I found that the most common solution is to go out and find another girlfriend. So, that night on the day she dumped me, I went clubbing. One of her friends was there, told her about it, and the next morning, called me and called me all sorts of names, how I'm a piece of shit and will be a nobody for the rest of my life. I'm not going to lie, I still have a LOT of feelings for her. We've been together for awhile and I loved her, never cheated or lied to her in any way. I did everything I could to make her happy.

Yesterday, I found out that she was calling up all my friends and telling them to stop hanging out with me anymore because I'll just only drop them down to my level. She went over the line. I hope I can bounce back after this and find me a girl with a good personality.
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THis Time: It's Personal(In action movie guy voice) j/k.

Ya jknow, I cannot stand anyone who has the sort of attitude you described of her. Fails to realize the only reason she got a job she did was because of mommy and daddy. fuck her for looking down on you.

I personally have never touched a live female in my life so I don't know if I would consider myself an expert or not. I have seen porns where this sort of thing happens, so wait a couple days and usually a hot UPS worker with a very tight , short skirt, "sexually loose", and huge tits wills show up and want to fuck. Generally they are sympathetic to the guy's problems(or pretend to be), so they fuck to make him feel better. Has never happened to me, but I've seen it so I do know it happens.
 
Flap said:
So AFTER she dumps YOU, she goes typically crazy bitch when u tried to move on with your life?

Sounds like bullshit to me.

Listen guy I will give you some solid advice about women; fuck them, use them, but never get emotionally attached. They have no other purpose in life other than to serve your needs or ruin your life.

Oh, and stop being a pussy.
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Remember the 4 Fs; Find, Feel, Fuck, Forget with Forget being the most important!
 
Touch that bitch with teh jab.

Nah seriously, she doesn't sound worth the hassle. I'd say the same for any girl who pulls a guilt trip on their ex in the way yours did. The best way to handle it is to just keep doing you- one day you're going to find a better job and a girl who likes you for you, and inevitably your ex is going to be bitter and regret what she did.
 
Richmma80 said:
my ex dumped me a few days ago, basically saying I'm not good enough for her. I graduated and received my business administration degree a few years ago and I have not been able to find a job in the field. I'm making just a bit above minimum wage, but I've been actively trying to find a better job. She graduated and immediately found a job, but it was ONLY because her parents juiced her in. She could have gotten that job right after high school. She's very attractive and smart, but sometimes has an attitude problem. She's been progressively talking down on me just because I haven't been able to find a decent job.

After a long talk last Saturday morning, she dumped me.* I was extremely depressed, and after looking around the internet, I found that the most common solution is to go out and find another girlfriend. So, that night on the day she dumped me, I went clubbing. One of her friends was there, told her about it, and the next morning, called me and called me all sorts of names, how I'm a piece of shit and will be a nobody for the rest of my life. I'm not going to lie, I still have a LOT of feelings for her. We've been together for awhile and I loved her, never cheated or lied to her in any way. I did everything I could to make her happy.

Yesterday, I found out that she was calling up all my friends and telling them to stop hanging out with me anymore because I'll just only drop them down to my level. She went over the line. I hope I can bounce back after this and find me a girl with a good personality.
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You looked on the internet about what to do about getting dumped? Shitty deal bro, but that does sound kinda lame and pathetic. Was this your first girlfriend?
 
get a baller job and a hot piece of ass then rub it in her face. on facebook. rub it in her facebook. and tell her friends to fuck themselves.
 
Excommunicate her from your life, be colder than freddie jackson sippin' a milkshake in a snow storm. No need for people, and especially hatchet wounds like that keep around in your life.
 
I know this doesn't sound like the best advice but she really does seem like a bitch TS.

It will probably take a while to get over her if you loved her but that's what whiskey is for.
 
Crazy shit. Bottom line is if that's her attitude you don't ned her. A woman like that will drive you over the line at some point and you'll end up hurting her. Kicking someone when they're down is the sign of a blackhearted coward. Keep moving forward without that sort of negativity. Life is hard enough to sail. She's an ANCHOR! Leave it alone.
 
Tomax said:
You looked on the internet about what to do about getting dumped? Shitty deal bro, but that does sound kinda lame and pathetic. Was this your first girlfriend?
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that's what i was thinking..

anyway, get a job, find another woman. problem solved.
 
You're better off man.

I'm sure you'll bounce back and find another woman.
 
Richmma80 said:
my ex dumped me a few days ago, basically saying I'm not good enough for her. I graduated and received my business administration degree a few years ago and I have not been able to find a job in the field. I'm making just a bit above minimum wage, but I've been actively trying to find a better job. She graduated and immediately found a job, but it was ONLY because her parents juiced her in. She could have gotten that job right after high school. She's very attractive and smart, but sometimes has an attitude problem. She's been progressively talking down on me just because I haven't been able to find a decent job.

After a long talk last Saturday morning, she dumped me.* I was extremely depressed, and after looking around the internet, I found that the most common solution is to go out and find another girlfriend. So, that night on the day she dumped me, I went clubbing. One of her friends was there, told her about it, and the next morning, called me and called me all sorts of names, how I'm a piece of shit and will be a nobody for the rest of my life. I'm not going to lie, I still have a LOT of feelings for her. We've been together for awhile and I loved her, never cheated or lied to her in any way. I did everything I could to make her happy.

Yesterday, I found out that she was calling up all my friends and telling them to stop hanging out with me anymore because I'll just only drop them down to my level. She went over the line. I hope I can bounce back after this and find me a girl with a good personality.
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Your ex didnt dump you because you went clubbing, she dumped you because you dont have a good job. Get a good job, then fuck her and her friends at the same time. Talk down to her the whole time your balls deep in her ass about how much of a filthy whore she is and how you wish she was better. Then leave.
 
Best advice is to find new pussy. And NEVER get emotionally attached to a bitch. Their inherently crazy, and you will hurt yourself in the long run by doing that.
 
Nihilistic said:
Your ex didnt dump you because you went clubbing, she dumped you because you dont have a good job. Get a good job, then fuck her and her friends at the same time. Talk down to her the whole time your balls deep in her ass about how much of a filthy whore she is and how you wish she was better. Then leave.
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Fuck her in the ass while slamming her head into the wall, then tell her that was her last paycheck and she's fired.
 
How could she dumb you after she broke up with you?
anyways,if i were you I'll tell her to go straight to hell.
If she's thinking she's too good for you, then let her be.
i was listening to a song while writing this and the singer says:
you should slit your wrists,get pissed and jump over a bridge.
may be a good answer if she EVER DARE say she's too good for you.
 
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