Etiquette Question:

if i went to my friends house, i was expected to be on my best behavior


if i got out of line, i expected to be punished in one way or another



that kid shouldved been suplex right out of the bounce house
 
Its sad that it has come to this even being a question . When I was little someone parent would have dragged your ass out told you what was up and handed you over to your parents the second they arrived. No police no law suits just basic people skills.

Sadly you probably made the right choice in not dragging the kid out.

I had to deal with the police a few summers ago for demanding some teenagers apologize to an elderly lady for destroying her flower beds ... No violence no threats just words ... Imagine my shock when there was a knock at the door an hour later.

People thinking there child can do no wrong and going apeshit about it if you tell them otherwise is seriously one of the things that has destroyed the self of community that previous generations have enjoyed
 
BJ@LW&WW said:
true.

im surprised at how many people are worried about things escalating. its not like youre gonna fight the kid just pull him out. maybe a 10 yr old is bigger than im imagining and someone without some form of grappling experience might not feel comfortable doing that.

i mean if its your house, he's on your property. i dont think legally there would be anything wrong with you touching someone elses kid without unnecessarily harming them.
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Me personnally im not to worried I mean i wouldnt try to hurt him or anything but my friend brought up a point. If i got there and my son came to me and said dad this guy hurt me. I would escalate things more than likely. I have a short fuse for that shit but again my son doesnt act like that so...
 
I would go in there and pull the kid out. My wife would tell me I should call his parents and ask if it was ok for me to do so, which is probably what would happen. If they said wait for them to do something, they would never be allowed to drop him off alone.
 
Yeah, you don't want to be touching kids not your own, or not ones you're good friends with the parents of. Kid thrashes about and you leave a couple hand shaped bruises on his arms and the parents could freak out and you're in a world of shit.

If you decide to physically remove them - have somebody record it on their phones in the very least.
 
I think removing him wouldn't have been too much, especially if you just grabbed him by the hand and lead him out.

However, it's entirely possible the kid is autistic or has other cognitive differences and might have lost his motherfuckin' mind if you touched him, so in some ways it was the right call. But if that was the case, the parents should really let people know beforehand.


Man, kids can be a pain in the ass.
 
You can't touch the other kid... It sucks because he deserved a kick in the ass.

My 4 year old daughter got pushed down a cargo net at a playground by a boy that was roughly 8-9 years old. I saw the entire thing and saw this punk run up behind my angel and shove her down. She was oblivious to what had happened as she rolled and bounced all the way down. I was shocked and wanted to back hand the little shit but all I could do was point at him and yell out "violent kid! Who's kid is this?! He's violent!"

His mom comes over and calls him down. I say "he just shoved my daughter down the net"

She replies "he wouldn't do that"

I say "I saw the whole thing"

She says to kid "tell the girl you didn't mean to"

I say "he meant to do it! I watched him do it!"

She says "you asshole, you don't know who you're messing with"

I said "well now I see where he gets it"

She calls me a few names and hustles the little idiot out of the playground

Parenting is filled with tough choices
 
Tell him you vote trump and will make america great again...Do it with UFC gloves on...
 
Nuke the site from orbit. It's the only way to be sure.
 
Broken arrow said:
You can't touch the other kid... It sucks because he deserved a kick in the ass.

My 4 year old daughter got pushed down a cargo net at a playground by a boy that was roughly 8-9 years old. I saw the entire thing and saw this punk run up behind my angel and shove her down. She was oblivious to what had happened as she rolled and bounced all the way down. I was shocked and wanted to back hand the little shit but all I could do was point at him and yell out "violent kid! Who's kid is this?! He's violent!"

His mom comes over and calls him down. I say "he just shoved my daughter down the net"

She replies "he wouldn't do that"

I say "I saw the whole thing"

She says to kid "tell the girl you didn't mean to"

I say "he meant to do it! I watched him do it!"

She says "you asshole, you don't know who you're messing with"

I said "well now I see where he gets it"

She calls me a few names and hustles the little idiot out of the playground

Parenting is filled with tough choices
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"you asshole, you don't know who you're messing with"

did you ever find out who you were messing with?
I am intrigued.
 
This is why I am not a big fun of leaving your kids at my kids Bday party if your Kid will attend and he can't behave himself then he should be accompanied by his guardian.
 
Gutter Chris said:
Its sad that it has come to this even being a question . When I was little someone parent would have dragged your ass out told you what was up and handed you over to your parents the second they arrived. No police no law suits just basic people skills.

Sadly you probably made the right choice in not dragging the kid out.

I had to deal with the police a few summers ago for demanding some teenagers apologize to an elderly lady for destroying her flower beds ... No violence no threats just words ... Imagine my shock when there was a knock at the door an hour later.

People thinking there child can do no wrong and going apeshit about it if you tell them otherwise is seriously one of the things that has destroyed the self of community that previous generations have enjoyed
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That is so fuck up.
 
ShinkanPo said:
That is so fuck up.
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That I woulda got whupped by whatever adult is in charge and than more than likely my mom too , that I got the police called on me for teling some kids not to be dicks or that if you even look at someones kid wrong now days and someone calls the police ?
 
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