Etiquette Question:

[Strange King]

I was at a birthday party and there is a jump house. kids are having fun but one boy starts to act up. I guess this 10 year old boy has had issues before. He starts trying to hurt a little kid in jump house and the mother of the bday boy says you have to get out now.

The boy gets in the back of the corner and refuses to get out. the mother just keeps asking for the kid to get out and he keeps saying no. The parent of the boy dropped their kid off, so a phone call had to be made for them to help get their child. while this kid is acting up all the other kids had to get out while this situation is remedied. The bounce house is only for 3 hours and it took close to 45 min before the parents got there to get their kid.

Me and my friend started debating. I said that if this was my childs party and this kid was ruining it, i would of grabbed the kid and put him on the outside of the jump house. My friend said thats dangerous ground because what if someone did that to your kid. I understood the point but my son would be in so much trouble if he did anything like this.

How would you guys of handled this situation? would you of just waited or would you have intervened? or would you have handled it a different way?

 

[blopdak]

With a kid like that, you never know how much he will thrash and scream, and what he will tell his parents if you forcibly remove him. Better to just move the children somewhere else for activities, and have a real talk with the parents when they get there. Plus side is also if the kid is no longer getting attention he might come out on his own anyways.

 

[Pliny Pete]

If someone leaves me in charge of their child then its my responsibility to keep that child safe and its also my responsibility to smack the shit outta that little bastard if he has it coming

 

[Lovestorm]

If he was at one end, couldn't you and maybe others have jumped on the opposite side and sent that little cunt through the air?

 

[PRIDEWASBETTER]

Hulk smash.

 

[neverwas]

uppercuts,lots of em.

 

[Peteyandjia]

In normal life or in the right moment, lifting the kid out and putting him outside, and then keeping an eye on him until his parent(s) showed up, would be the right thing to do.

Worried about lawsuits and shit like that, leave it alone. No one is in physical danger.

 

[michal001]

Feed to gorilla

 

[DevilsLettuce]

Send like 6 little kids in there to kick the shit out of him, obviously.

 

[John Wang]

KO all the kids and use bounce house for myself

 

[Bebop]

publicly shame the kid, obviously

 

[Strange King]

getting alot of violence vibes. next time hes dead

 

[Michaelangelo]

should have sent your own kid after him

give him a taser and let the rest lay out

 

[Matt4786]

I'd guess physically removing him risks a lot more than 45 minutes of drama, but I wouldn't hold it against someone who took that route.

 

[BJ@LW&WW]

if this was my childs party and this kid was ruining it, i would of grabbed the kid and put him on the outside of the jump house. My friend said thats dangerous ground because what if someone did that to your kid

i would expect anyone i have respect for to grab my theorically little shit kid and get him the fuck out of there and discipline him.

i think its one thing to discipline another persons child if they are around at the time. its their responsibility and they should decide how to go about it since they are there. if i left my child in the care of someone else, i would expect them to discipline the kid if he acted out however they would their own, with the caveat of if i had given them specific instructions on what to do to a cunt.

 

[bdthrill]

You did the right thing by waiting for the parents as much as that sucks. You don't really want to force someone else's kid to move like that. Could escalate into something way worse

 

[El Chimpo]

send a bigger kid in there to drag him out

 

[Matt4786]

i would expect anyone i have respect for to grab my theorically little shit kid and get him the fuck out of there and discipline him.

i think its one thing to discipline another persons child if they are around at the time. its their responsibility and they should decide how to go about it since they are there. if i left my child in the care of someone else, i would expect them to discipline the kid if he acted out however they would their own, with the caveat of if i had given them specific instructions on what to do to a cunt.

Your kid probably wouldn't be a little bitch though. Kids who act like that usually have shitty parents.

 

[BJ@LW&WW]

Your kid probably wouldn't be a little bitch though. Kids who act like that usually have shitty parents.

true.

im surprised at how many people are worried about things escalating. its not like youre gonna fight the kid just pull him out. maybe a 10 yr old is bigger than im imagining and someone without some form of grappling experience might not feel comfortable doing that.

i mean if its your house, he's on your property. i dont think legally there would be anything wrong with you touching someone elses kid without unnecessarily harming them.

 

[ClubFoot]

It's s kid ffs.

Go up there, grab the little fucker by the arm and pull him off.

Sit him in a chair until his folks arrive. If they start up fill he room with teh jabs.